Reddit Dump: “I am an Asian woman engaged to a white man, concerned about my future sons.”

As if Asian women are going to give a single shit about us… but I’m still posting here as a sort of canary in the coal mine.

My notes: I just started thinking about how Asian women favoring white men doesn’t actually have to do necessarily with self hatred, (although it does), but a desire for “excitement” and “rebellion.” The fact that us Eurasians are left as a result with no solid ethnic identity and that this excitement and rebellion uniformly revolves around that which White men and western culture provides – we are left out of this exciting culture because of our appearance and constantly reminded that we are Asian men, even by the Asian women who are having such a good time “escaping.”

On top of that we’re brought into a world and told that it’s personality and ability that matters… yet we look exactly like the kind of men our mothers and fathers spent decades of their lives laughing at.

Rebellion and excitement is not a foundation for a relationship or for raising a child with healthy self esteem unless the child looks like the object of desire and excitement and even then not so much.

In this way we have so many broken WMAW families and so many broken Hapas who turn to drugs and crime to escape perpetual feelings of inferiority. As Hapas we are expected to just accept that white men are better fathers / sperm donors and take pride in being Asian, in the same breath. Logically it makes no sense.

I am an Asian woman engaged to a white man, concerned about my future sons.

Top rated quote:

You need to make sure your husband understands that racism isn’t some made up thing that minorities complain about. He needs to understand that your son WILL have it harder in the dating scene and that he might resent other members of the family. Asian women enjoy a ton of sexual privilege. White men enjoy even more. And Eurasian women (his sisters) are probably the single most desirable demographic when it comes to dating/relationships. Eurasian men are all the way on the other end of the spectrum, doing well with pretty much only Asian girls. DO NOT LIE TO YOUR FUTURE SON. DO NOT TELL HIM HIS RACE OR GENDER DO NOT MATTER. Why AMWF hapas are so normal by comparison is that they don’t desperately and obsessively wish they were white 24/7 because they identify with their asian father. Also usually when it’s AMWF the Asian guy is cool whereas with WMAF the white guy is often a socially awkward loser. 

I can’t repeat enough how little I think of white men’s abilities to raise minority children but if you love him and he is willing to learn then teach him. If he’s a fuckwit like nexdemise who complains about anti-white racism and SJWs then you need to drop him instantly. If he’s a fuckwit who claims to be “colorblind” and appears otherwise liberal then he is teachable but is still a fuckwit until taught correctly.

That being said I legitimately wish you happiness.

User /u/trustmeimhapa

The rest of them have mental problems. Depression, suicide, crime, drug abuse, mental breakdown, inferiority feelings. It’s a tragedy.

And all likelihood is it won’t change. White males would have to give up the power. Ain’t gonna happen. We’re screwed. Just bi-products of Asian inferiority and white supremacy. Like we are some sort of trophy that our father conquered the Asians.

It’s not gonna get better so we just have to focus on making it less worse.

Conversation between OP and another poster:

[–]throwawayasianQ[S] 1 point4 days ago

Why does dating a white guy automatically mean she is self hating? My brother married a white woman, is he also self hating?

[–]OnlyEnDreams[F] 8 points4 days ago*

because you’re more likely to be dating a racist, a supremacist like Nexdemise. someone who disdains asian men or has no regard for them but will date asian women exclusively. I can already point that out in this thread.

Good to know. Thanks. Seriously though, ad hominems all around. I might as well go “2 inch chink chode”.

I bet you thought he was a nice white guy with an asian gf. This is what you don’t see from your white men. the side that wants to snuff out any link to your race that you or your kids have left. they are not at all interested in raising proud asians. actually you two can go on perfectly fine and have girls but an asian son would be subject to his father’s and asian women’s belittling of asian men. listen to this podcast at 6:30. shit like this is normal in white society.

More aggregated comments:

Lol at all these careerist women who run off with a foreign man to a foreign country and only think about money, then in their 30s and 40s start caring about their “roots” and “Chinese culture”. Of course the kids are negatively affected, as the mother will force them into language classes and “cultural events”, only to resent them for not being real Chinese.

On a post about blogger Xiaxue feminizing her half Asian son:

This post resonates with me. My mother used to dress me up in dresses like a girl when I was that age. She used to always feminize the shit out of me growing up as a kid too.

She made me moisturize my hands till they looked like girls hands, condition my hair everyday. Talk to people from a feminine asian position of submission and over extreme politeness. To be ultra clean like a girl would be – rejecting any male like traits like they were bad for me. I could go on and on.

I hate it more than you can imagine.

[–]jemisforce[S] 2 points16 hours ago

Maybe she wanted a hapa girl lile 99% of wmaf couples.

As for other posts, I am considering moving them over to eurasianpeople.co to start cataloguing the large number of complaints and horror stories about being mixed race in America.

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3 thoughts on “Reddit Dump: “I am an Asian woman engaged to a white man, concerned about my future sons.”

  1. elise the 11 yr old who has got a japanese itelagince test that says she has mind of 37 yr old who obiolsy dosnt wanna spell right says:

    ok so many of eurasians hav talked about stuff like this im eurasian and blasian but family members or internet people are in this disscussion any way hav a talk with your son or daughter interduce them to all there cultures theres a youtube channel called lily peatals world its a blasian family tho but when they eat they make sure that there two lil girls eat both there kenyan food there korean food and american food and also they have exsposed them to all 3 languages they might not be either of ur races in particular but they give good advice and guides of living in a multiracial family and also again about talking ask how was school get to be friends with them but not to friendly when u let them get tattoos when there 16 like my uncle did to his son. big mistake anway they sometimes face a lil raceisum and all becuz i no a girl from another website who says she dosnt hav any real best friends some times she goes without weeks of talking to her parents even tho they under the same roof and if her (white) dad wants to talk to her they talk by email there are many mistakes that afwm do without knowing theres also one guy who said his mom nos she made a mistake she thought by being with a white man would make her wealthy but it didnt since then she has called the police on her husband has stabed him threatened to kill him and more so take time to think are u rlly in luv with this man ? do u think hes good enough to be a father ? especially for a multiraceiacl kids and plz if u yav kids let them marry any race they want its not fair if u dont there just people after all arent they?

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