Imagine if there was something you knew, but that the rest of the world refused to acknowledge, how frustrated would you feel?
Imagine if Asian women had extremely low standards for white men, and extremely high for Asian men; imagine being a Eurasian son who has to live with this knowledge; in a way, all Eurasians are unified by the very fact that by all definitions it appears that Asian women vastly prefer white men, even the ones with the most pitiful qualifications, a privilege from which we cannot benefit.
This video is making its way around the internet. I am one of the few people standing up and saying that it is largely bullshit and that the Asian man’s vindication was not justified, but understandable at someone with my own frustrations at being Eurasian and constantly reminded at how white supremacy is valuable – especially from within my own household.
A lot of people are coming to the defense of this young man who for all intents and purposes looks like a victim. However, I would say that both parties are victims, in this case; the fat man’s being the result of his inadequacy in achieving the ideal expected of Asian women, and the white man, in being as naive as he is in believing that her love for him is somehow pure.
People are also acting in complete outrage without actually consider the implications of a man who is unequivocally unattractive yet was able to conveniently find his way into one of the most common interracial pairings on the planet, without anyone attempting to determine his character or the motivations behind his love for Taiwan. My father “loved” China and Japanese culture, and had studied East Asian studies for his masters degree and ultimately his passion developed out of his social inability and desire to be worshipped and valued.
On closer inspection it appears to me (and my wife) that this man is VERY unfortunate in the looks department and as the Taiwanese man says… he would be unable to get a girlfriend back in the United States or any Western country. Moreover, unlike said white male, the Taiwanese man would be unable to travel to Britain and find a white woman to pair up with, on the basis that he is Asian.
I would astutely say that this is the case, which is why he was so absolutely offended by the confrontation. As he is at the bottom of the heap in terms of attractiveness while his girlfriend is at least a 6 or a 7 in terms of looks, I would definitely assert that being white, or at least a non-local, helped him, and / or that his girlfriend is mentally ill. I say this because while there being relatively few of them, enough women have come up to me or initiated contact with me on the assumption that I was white (at first), and some even disengaged after finding out that I was half Chinese; the fundamental clause was the whiteness of the party, or at very least, as my wife said, that he is different.
Young love being young love he is setting himself up, and she is in all likelihood going to prove to be untrustworthy and once it dawns on her that he really is as ugly as he seems, she will start breaking down into her psychosis, which I saw my mother breaking into, some ten years after she got married and realized that being married to a white man didn’t mean castles and green fields, but tiny apartments and extremely odd behavior. Already the girl is demonstrating immensely bizarre behavior, which would necessitate that she was psychologically prone to mental illness and / or drawn to white men as a means to find refuge.
I speak, and other Eurasians speak, that and even my commenters have spoken about how Asian women who deliberately seek to date out often times display antisocial behavior, and idealize foreign culture and lifestyles as being superior – which itself is indicative of mental illness as most people know there is no promised land. In later stages in a relationship this oftentimes turns into nagging, passive aggressive behavior, and sex withholding from her white partner.
The reason I say this is that the originator of the video is extremely disingenuous. I myself am offended, as a good looking Eurasian, that an Asian woman would rather have a guy like that than a normal Asian man; and what astounds me is that there really is no basis for the relationship other than that he is white, or that he looks the way that he does.
There are enough good looking Asian men out there, yet women are en masse rejecting good looking Asian men in favor of white men of various looks levels, indicating an immediately apparent overvaluation of whiteness.
There’s no basis for the relationship other than the whiteness of the partner, and any basis revolves primarily around the fact that he is white regardless of nuances that develop within the relationship; the reason for this might very well be because she is “artistic,” or attempting to “rebel from traditional Taiwanese society,” but from the inside out, when she has millions of Taiwanese men to choose from, and a host of good looking White men as well, that she settles for this male. And even when she ends up with a good looking White man, a large portion of the time it was his whiteness that gave him an extra advantage to get his food in the door, while other Asian men were unable to step in.
I have been on both sides of this, depending on how I was perceived.
A good example is when I met my wife; at the beginning she was totally disinterested in me because I was “foreign.” It was only after showing her that I was Chinese, that my family was one of the most prominent Chinese families in New York, that she began to like and trust me – the fundamental issue being that she saw that I was trustworthy and stable, something she associated with Chinese and Asian men. Looks were not the issue – she was willing to have a less than attractive Asian man, as do most sane Asian women, over a good looking white man, for the purpose of having a stable life.
My wife, as you can see in the above post, is mentally sane. Completely so, compared to a woman like my mother and those in my family who valued whiteness as a means to “success,” or “integration,” while ignoring the obvious detriments of overvaluing whiteness and having ones own non-white kids see it.
Why does this bother me? As a Eurasian, I am constantly reminded that Asian women would rather have bottom of the barrel white men, or even average white men, over top-tier or even average Asian men, and this to me is a constant reminder of my worth as a human being as the world sees me as an Asian man; the fact that even white women take note of the disparity on this website, indicates that there is something fundamentally unbalanced and wrong about it. This is one of the reasons why Eurasians are so prone to implosion, in the face of the constant reminder that even the worst of all white men are better partners than the best of all Asian men.
My father had severe emotional problems (unable to participate in class as a child, severely bullied, unable to face confrontation) so an Asian woman (who in turn’s only requirement was that the man was white), was his best option, as White women saw right through him.
Ultimately what happened was that two people got together on the basis of their inability to manage their own cultures and on the basis of severe emotional flaws that made them overvalue the perceived qualities of the other’s race, while ignoring the massive amount of flaws in their partners. And it doesn’t matter if this isn’t the case for all partners; the fact that the WM/AW pattern is so common means that Asian men failed to meet the expectation of their women in simply existing, the same way that a Eurasian is reminded constantly that white is better.
And ultimately what this means is that the child, an Asian looking child, is going to be perpetually reminded of his low social value, since because white men, even the worst ones, are supposedly better partner than Asian men, will destroy him completely from the get go. Combined with social isolation from both sides, racism directed towards him, mental illness and likely poor looks and physical health (in all likelihood much worse than the offender in the video), will make him a tremendous, violent threat to society, or drive him into bizarre or psychotic behavior (the founder of Hapas.com is a transvestite!)
The reason why the Taiwanese public had such an outcry at this is very well that any man who is familiar with the behavior of Chinese and by larger extension, Asian women, knows that mental illness is very prevalent and any woman who would willingly sleep with a man with such immense defects is herself mentally ill, at very best, she will value a white man, for his appearance and looks and excuse his behavior but the fact remains that the most undesirable psychological elements tend towards finding refuge in a male that she identifies as being able to grant her “freedom.”
If you can’t understand why an Asian woman choosing the bottom of the barrel white dudes, is offensive to Eurasian men, then there’s something objectively wrong with your brain. Not my brain. Yours.
Both of those men should have been single. But one of them wasn’t because he was white.
Get it through your head why this is offensive to a Eurasian male. It’s not rocket science.
But more importantly do remember that Eurasians are at special risk because they inherit all of their mothers’ mental illnesses, and none of the white privilege that comes with it. And even in the so called “healthy” WM/AW couples… we inherit none of the privilege.