Being Half Asian is Essentially an Impossible to Navigate Pyramid Scheme pushed by Asian women and White men

Do you want to understand Asian people? Then go right to their source: their own children, and since so many of the modern incarnations of Asian people in the west are multiracial, let me explain what we have to go through.

Literally, go seek out any mixed family and see how the mother suddenly tries to push her kids into Asian activities (I was pushed into learning Mandarin, doing Kumon, Taekwondo), see how her toddlers openly express disdain for anything Asian, look at how the mothers all seem to hyphenate their names in a last minute push to reclaim Asian identities, yet the fathers all look the same. The majority of our fathers are white.

If you don’t believe me: just leave your house and see for yourself.

The entire thing is largely an exercise in irony.

Let me explain. Do you recall the philosophical statement made on the first season of True Detective? That “time is a flat circle?” I don’t recall the actual origin of the statement but we’ll work with that.

Asian women, in the present, actively create a miserable environment for Asian men, and make it so that identifying as Asian is essentially romantic and social suicide. Literally ask any Asian woman about this and she will admit to have attempted to cause as much pain as possible to an Asian man in her youth through her words and actions.

She will claim it is about feminism, yet any deep digging and pressure will reveal something that they themselves – and only themselves – know behind closed doors – that they are simply not attracted to Asian men, they fetishize white features (tall noses, and light colored eyes) or worse, that they inherently recognize that white men provide a better chance at societal acceptance. (The last part, i.e., about social acceptance, I have noticed after moving to Asia and realizing that the majority of Asian women actually do not date white men because of their low social standing here; hence feminism has nothing to do with it, as any intelligent woman would recognize that there are good and bad within each race).

The feminism part comes as a convenient way to dispel criticism for their non-attraction to Asian men, wherein it is easier to blame Asian men for being bitter; but any group would be bitter if they were told they were essentially genetically, romantically, socially worthless.

When an Asian woman gets older and has a child (like Deanna Fei), the majority of the time the child will endure racism. She will try to teach the child to be proud of his or her heritage, all the while doing this surrounded by Asian women also married to white men.

These white men are completely unable to understand why a half Asian child would be romantically and socially spurned by men and women alike; after all, it never occurred to him that his partner was with him specifically because he was white, and even if he did, he was getting laid.

So in actuality unmarried Asian women in the present create an environment hostile to their half Asian children in the future – all the while passively attempting to claim ownership of hapas. Time is a flat circle; all events happen at once.

The irony is immense. Just incredibly, incredibly immense. 

All of my Chinese New Year events growing up were filled with white men looming over their Asian wives and girlfriends… And yet I was supposed to have developed a subconscious appreciation for my Asian side? Is this why I cut my hair short for years to avoid its black texture and color from coming out?

If anything Asian mothers have no right to tell their children that they feel guilty about us not wanting to embrace our Asian side. These mothers created the atmosphere – in their past and present – that deliberately penalized Asian blood.

What’s even worse is that being Eurasian is actually so emotionally and psychologically traumatizing for so many different reasons that even I can’t understand (being subconsciously castrated is one, wanting badly to be white but failing is another), that…

When Eurasians do act out in horrible ways, it’s not our white side that gets blamed. It’s our Asian side! Despite Asian men having almost zero bearing in our real lives; aside from my uncles who I saw once a year at Chinese New Year, I was raised entirely by my white father.

So even then, even in our darkest hour, our own collective motherhood is against us. And they know this is true, and like anyone else, they attempt to control the discussion, justify their actions while minimizing any blame and responsibility for creating an atmosphere (so, so, so many Asian women act like this) wherein their own sons are confused, don’t know why their confused – all because their mothers could not admit they were simply more attracted to white men. 

Just imagine the sense of betrayal looking Asian and seeing Asian women like your mother reject people who look like you en masse. It no longer has to do with feminism – it has to do with open 1960’s style racism and then being told by them that “we are not entitled to love, life, or happiness.” Even black, Latina, and other minority women are fully aware of this – hence the divide between Asian feminists and other feminist groups.

We don’t have any books to help us, we don’t have any outlet other than saying; oh, well, yeah, then I guess Asian men are really undesirable, so then, I’d better identify as white as I can, or spend the rest of my life lonely, and since feminists say that I am not entitled to anything – well, certainly that must be true; I am worthless.

It’s much worse than being a tragic mulatto. It’s ten times worse, and eventually the chickens will come home to roost.

For my readers: please try to understand the horror of being a half Asian born into a pairing that is deeply, deeply, unfathomably racist at its core, and yet trying to navigate this without going berserk somewhere down the line. And even if it’s not racist, it’s at best a biological paradox where Asian women despise the thought of touching an Asian male physically – and yet their own sons are half-Asian and supposed to accept this.

It’s essentially biological slavery.

It’s a scheme. A very, very vicious scheme that only the most depraved Asian women would allow to exist.

With that being said, there are plenty of aware Asian women out there who understand this basic principal. The problem is that they’re not the ones having Hapa kids by the millions.

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9 thoughts on “Being Half Asian is Essentially an Impossible to Navigate Pyramid Scheme pushed by Asian women and White men

  1. One thing I’ve learned is the people benefiting aren’t complaining. If Asian men were disproportionately marrying out, you’d hear Asian women complaining and Asian men saying they have a right to marry who they want. I remember a time when Asian men were marrying white women. Branden Lee anyone?

    None of these racial issues within groups are about love of each other or the race. It’s about feeling rejected and relegated and so trying to appeal to the perceived privileged ones to give up their privilege. If the shoe was on the other foot, that rejected/relegated person would do the SAME thing. You can predict this would go on because the rejected always makes a case of how their pairing with “other” is better than the current pairing because it’s supposedly less harmful. They never make the case that it ALL needs to go away(since they supposedly care about the race as a whole and it’s supposedly not about bitter grapes).

    • Asian men on the other hand can marry out as well. The author has said that he had plenty of women came to him. But because of a lot of Asian men rather to choose their own women than white women. This is very true. And it is also true white women who felt an attraction toward an Asian man can feel the sense that they don’t want a white girl. And of course the woman wouldn’t come to the Asian man. She may as well expresses dislike to him in defense. Do not point figures when you are not Asian yourself and not understanding the meaning of this identity. The author carries this identity and experience the fetishim of his parents. I’m his stories he has shared this.

    • Brownwomanworrier/ Asian men on the other hand can marry out as well. The author has said that he had plenty of women came to him. But because of a lot of Asian men rather to choose their own women than white women. This is very true. And it is also true white women who felt an attraction toward an Asian man can feel the sense that they don’t want a white girl. And of course the woman wouldn’t come to the Asian man. She may as well expresses dislike to him in defense. A lot of factors in American society affect the confidents of Asian men, yellow peril also due to Hollywood and television label such men as untouables, as well as weak, affeminate, less of a man, manhood-less. Asian boys are often shyed away, staying in their comfort zone. The author is pointing out thruth and facial racism. Do not point figures when you are not Asian yourself and not understanding the meaning of this identity. The author carries this identity and experience the fetishim of his parents. In his stories he has shared this.

  2. I’m so confused. I appreciate your openness and willingness to talk beyond the censorship of political correctness. Let me ask a few really dumb questions that might help me understand.

    Is there a specific group that you feel should be blamed for the problem you’re talking about?

    What exactly is the problem in simple terms that even a “dumb haole” can understand?

    What would you recommend people do to solve the problem?

    Sorry I’m so dense. Today’s my 37th anniversary, happily married to a 3rd generation Japanese-American woman. I’ve got two hapa kids and two grandkids that are 1/4 Asian.

    By the way, my wife doesn’t like the term “Asian.” She prefers “oriental,” saying that Japan is not part of Asia. She says “Asian” goes with “elephant,” exactly the way “oriental” goes with “rug.” She doesn’t mind the rug thing, I guess. Also, she doesn’t like feminism.

    Me, I’m a “privileged white male” who worked his butt off for 13 years to become a doctor, hated medical practice for 26 years (pathology) and “retired early,” being happily burned out. Now I’m trying to be a writer. “Hapa Girl DNA” is the title of an sf novel I’m posting one chapter at a time on my blog.

    Thanks for your insight and honesty.

    • Not all WMAW couples are bad, but for the ones that are, they are really bad, and the children will need help.

      If you have some broad questions you should post them on reddit.com/r/hapas, since it has way more viewership and diversity of viewpoints than here.

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