Literally every white guy who likes Asian women has something wrong with him, including my own father

No matter how you slice it, it’s as if White men who like Asian women follow a uniform pattern. Losers? ✔ Poor? ✔ Racist? ✔ Meek?✔ Hate western women? ✔ Hate Asian men?✔ Hate feminists?✔ Hate black people?✔

Despite there being millions upon millions of half Asians with white fathers and Asian mothers these people cannot name more than a handful of successful ones – yet for some reason these guys are all experts on raising half Asian kids.

This is a recent comment on my blog.

I am a white guy currently dating a vietnamese girl.
We’re both 30.
I am a liberal, humanist atheist socialist minded kind and empathic person.
I would never hurt a fly intentionally.

My father would also “never hurt a fly intentionally” either because he has no backbone – hence Asian women. My dad actually faints at the sight of his own blood, stepped off the sidewalk when two menacing men walked down it – leaving 15 year old me  alone.

I do not date as asian woman because she is “submisdive” or “conservative”, but because european women are money hungry and i sm poor.

So a poor white man (like my father) marries an Asian woman because she’s easier – as long as you’re white and are able to provide what she wants – upgraded Asian babies. Except my mother – ten years after getting married, realized that her Asian siblings were rich, and she was married to a poor white man, and boy, that didn’t end so well… her white fantasy prince, my 6’3″ white father, was just a loser who couldn’t provide. Why do you think the WMAW divorce rate is so high and these couples look miserable in public?

Moreso i suffer from a disease that prevents me from having children.

Worst of both worlds. Not the best.

And she was the first to agree with an IVF procedure to have a child.

Lemme guess – the sperm donor will look like Dolph Lundgren.

Yes it will be only half white?
So what?

Refers to his child as “it.”

People who think he/she is “less worthy” are not people i want him/her to hang out with anyway.
Chin up!

No, Roger it is not about “race” no matter how hard you try to paint me as a racist.

Says he’s not racist.

I simply concluded that western women have behaviors that are not to my liking.

Says something racist.

They non commital, have too much random sex are dismissive, demanding and materialistic and YES i have met plenty of asian women who were like that too.

But overall the “ratio” was far better.

Says something even more racist. ✔

Religion is another factor.
I’m an atheist and she is too.

He believes atheism is a religion and that this is like meeting a girl at church. ✔

I simply don’t want to…PAY for my relationship with a woman through cut throat corporate competition for a soul crushing career.
Something which ALL western women demand of you – no discussions.

This moron has obviously never met a Chinese woman. All the Chinese women in my family are extremely career oriented while their husbands are borderline losers – like tutors, school teachers, or middle managers.

I want a simple modest happy life. Full of little pleasures of life.
We talked this over and rather than moving to Europe ( which is a materialistic dump ) i’ll move to Vietnam and live with her.

My dad is an asceticist. What a surprise! He believes working for money is a sin, that money is a tool of Jews and the devil, and that it’s noble to give away money rather than using it to help his mentally ill son. ✔

I really don’t understand the anger towards WMAW pairing.
I’m guessing it comes mostly from asian men who have this strange idea that we “steal their women” or something.

Racism against Asian men, despite half Asian sons looking totally Asian.✔

If so…then this would make you the racists by differentiating by skin color and sexist by thinking said women owe you pity sex.

I came here with the intentions of understanding and support. So the abuse you hurl at me was expected as a defensive reaction.

Starts playing the racist game – in a white man’s attempt to deflect claims of racism, despite being fundamentally racist himself. This is almost a go-to tactic now for White men involved with Asian women – just ask them what they think of black men and you’re about set.


137 thoughts on “Literally every white guy who likes Asian women has something wrong with him, including my own father

  1. You say that something is wrong if a white guy goes after asian women.what about blacks now there is a problem waiting to happen they are poor racist not only to asian men but even racist to the asian women.see I’m white and I’m married to an asian woman not a loser not poor by any means please come up with more bull.if the asian women didn’t want a white she could say no I think you are a jealous asian man that your girl left you for a white man sorry

    • You white guys really don’t do yourselves any favors. I have my fucking family pictures up that show I’m clearly half Asian yet you idiots will try to find any way to bring me down.

      • This is old I know I have friends that are produce of a white father and asian mother doctors lawyers and are just trying to bring yourself down

      • Is it just me

        or do you sound like a MASSIVE racist?

        If anyone tries to point it out, you pull the ‘WELL OBVIOUSLY I’M HALF ASIAN CARD”

    • tomusryass,

      You’re a loser, you just don’t want to admit it. Are you any of the following:

      1. Racist towards blacks and Asian men?
      2. Earn a lot less than professionals?
      3. Do white women not want you?
      4. Using your whiteness to get Asian women?
      5. Autistic like behaviors?
      6. Socially inept, can’t look at people in the eyes when they talk?
      7. Physically, do you not look appealing to the masses?
      8 Have a low social status?

      • I know this is late not racist to asian men not a loser not rejected by white didn’t chase after an asian woman don’t make less than professional people let’s just say the company my wife and I started grossed over a billion dollars this year the age difference between my wife and I is a big 6 months so yes I guess I’m older than her we have been married 44 years

      • Racism is everywhere. Ive experienced it as a white male. Your dads an asshole. You need to learn to accept it. Not blame a race because of your father. Also wouldnt you think the women in your family have bad taste in men if all their husbands are losers?

        • NO. YOU. HAVE. NOT. Don’t even try it. You need to look up the definition of “racism”. At the very root of it’s existence is a white male named Johann Friedrich Blumenbach in 1785. It is offensive to hear any white male claim somebody was racist towards them. Reverse racism DOES NOT EXIST.

          • So if you go to China and people are racist towards you they’re not actually racist because you’re white and thus they can’t be racist towards you?

            • My thoughts exactly – and i LIVE in China where the GOVERNMENT tells them “Chinese women – DO NOT mix with white western men because they are spies and and my thai wife who I’ve been happily married to for 6 years is asked in the street “why are you with him”? THATS RACIST!!! not your stupid DAD!!

              • They probably ask you why she’s with you because you’re fat and ugly and bald and short and racist and couldn’t get a white woman. Not because it’s a political conspiracy.

      • Don’t like blacks never did grew up with them as to being poor I don’t know you idea of poor I will tell my company grosses over 1 billion dollars a year if that fits your mold for poor I guess you got me there my asian brother in law runs the Japanese part of three company wasn’t looking for an asian wife but found one been married to her 45 years

        • Your company? You mean you work as a janitor in the bathroom of a company that makes 1 billion dollars a year? I wasn’t aware top executives still can’t spell and use proper grammar.

        • Not all blacks are the same, blacks come from different cultures and countries. There’s even “blacks” from Asia like Negritos in the Philippines. Please stop acting as ignorant as the so called blacks you don’t like. And many Asian women have black women features!

    • Well he just proved wm in wmaf couples are racist and hate / fear blacks etc lol. Lordy, these guys really fit the mold!

        • Funny, they probably think the same of Asians like you. Wimpy, shortchanged below the belt, passive, feminine males, white-worshipping and rejected by 90% + of white women. Even a poor ghetto black can get hot rich white females. As far as being useless, how many Asian A-list actors and musicians and sports heroes are there? Politicians, mayors, doctors, professors, and of course a president. Useless blacks? LOL.

          • As a traditional Asian girl who was born and raised in California, things you’ve just said disgusted me to the bottom of my stomach. The fact that you try so deeply to offend Asian men as well as using Black men to emphasize how low they are while making your race seem superior is pathetic. Many if not all of the Asian men that I know date within their own race and ethnicity and if you were to ask any White girl if any Asian man has ever approached them, chances are they would say never. Reasons of why Asian men are under represented in North America is because it’s primarily a White society. If you ever had a chance to go to Asia, to an Asian society, you will see successful politicians, mayors, doctors, professors, and presidents. In addition, my boyfriend is White but he is not a low life like you. He doesn’t have the sick mentality to feel that all Asian women worship trash like you. He also isn’t insecure to the point where he has troubles dating girls that he wants to date which results in spending time in forums to make others feel low for reassurance. Because of people like you, my boyfriend and I always get discriminated in public for no apparent reason, making us Asian girls insecure in the mix.

              • OMG you’re a guy and you asked out a girl and you got rejected!?!?!?!? HOLY FUCKING SHIT MAN!!!!

                Someone call MSNBC, CNN, FOXNEWS….WE HAVE A STORY!

              • When I get rejected by some stuck up, racist pale face, I just tie them up and keep them in basement for a while. Once that Stockholm syndrome takes over , they can’t say no to me. Good times!

            • You get discriminated in public because you’re nothing but a stereotype: an Asian woman who marries white males for status and throws Asian men under the bus. Your boyfriend is a fucking white loser (majority of decent white men and hapa men avoid Asian women for a reason – you’re essentially a loser’s prize).

        • “The blacks “! Everything you have posted has proved Eurasian Writer’s point. Your utter disdain for other races especially the ones you mostly likely fear and do not defer to you for being white and for being white alone . Its funny that you even mentioned black people or was it Black Women in your response when no one even asked if you like them . You just kind of blurted it out.
          Besides if none of the things in this blog apply to you or your wife why not ignore it as some kind of anomaly that has nothing to do with you

  2. Too cute! Making sweeping generalizations about people based off of your own limited experience. You know what that is? Racist. But you keep rolling with that since it helps you to work out your daddy issues. Just scream he “literally” has something wrong with him because he loves your mother.

    • Ah, yes. One of the amazing benefits of being with an Asian woman is that you can be openly racist, yet claim that you are big racist, because after all, you’re with a non-white woman.

  3. Hmm… you’ve honestly got me thinking… yeah… I believe you’re right when you say: “Literally every white guy who likes Asian women has something wrong with him, including my own father”.

    But this only applies to White guys in non-majority Asian societies. Marty Friedman is a cool, ex-Megadeth guitarist married to Hiyori Okuda that loves Japanese culture because he’s loved in Japan as a celebrity. So it’s a win-win relationship; she alienates the Asian male population a little, yet he raises their status because he chose an Asian lady over White because he loves the Japanese people!

    In the case of White guys in majority White societies, it does seem odd him marrying an Asian lady because she has more to gain from the arrangement. So he’s likely to be a lot older and therefore creepier, a loser at the bottom of the social hierarchy, ugly and rejected by his peer group etc.

  4. Wow, this is one of the most ignorant things I’ve ever read! 😀 It’s great to assume you know everything because of your own limited experiences. I hope you get the help you need some day.

  5. This guy is an absolute cock head, has no Idea what he is talking about and is an utter looser. I think he should shut the hell up and take a hike and keep his shit opinions to him self.

  6. Anybody participating in discussions/flamewars like this is on a dark path to nowhere. I know because I once obsessed over Asian women and nearly went insane by it. Get off the web some, go live your life. Learn new things. Forget about internet flame wars about getting women and actually go talk to women.

  7. “Literally every white guy who likes Asian women has something wrong with him”

    You realize that two people of different races can fall in love based on personality, right? Mature adults are capable of having discussions about their relationships, and can ensure that it’s not based on racism or fetishism. Just because two people fall in love and happen to be a WMAF couple does NOT mean that they are automatically terrible.

    I’m a son of a white guy and a Chinese woman just like you, and honestly this blog is really unsettling. It’s cool that you’ve found a place to vent about your personal struggles, but honestly these broad generalizations seem counterproductive. My parents are both affluent professionals in tech. Neither of them are “losers” or poor or racist or meek or hateful to any of those groups you named. Now obviously my anecdotal evidence can’t speak for every couple, but you did say “LITERALLY EVERY WHITE GUY” and I am can assure you that that’s incorrect.

    However, you might be right about something. I do look way more white than Asian, so perhaps that has influenced my point of view. Perhaps I’m just lucky. But dude, I really hope your preconceived notions of how “literally every” WMAF couple works doesn’t poison your opinion of the many innocent respectable couples out there who don’t fit the mold you’ve convinced yourself is absolutely true.

    • Why does WMAW outnumber AMWW. What would you know about being Asian? Have you ever been told you were less for being Asian? What if an Asian woman thought of Asian looking men as beneath her? What if your mother was proud that you looked white, rather than Asian?

      • “Why does WMAW outnumber AMWW?”

        Racism, most likely. Stereotypes, media, etc. I’m not denying the discrepancy, I’m saying that it’s unreasonable to assume that EVERY WMAW couple is fueled by racism. Broad generalizations tend to be counterproductive.

        “Have you ever been told you were less for being Asian?”

        No, but I grew up in a predominantly Asian community and got bullied a lot for being half white.

        “What if an Asian woman thought of Asian looking men as beneath her? What if your mother was proud that you looked white, rather than Asian?”

        Those are both two hypothetical scenarios that I agree would be terrible. But again, most Asian women do not consider Asian men to be beneath them. Asian American women live in a country where 70% of the population is white. It makes sense that 70% of the people they marry also happen to be white. Statistics, dude. I agree that it’s weird that Asian men don’t marry out as much, which I believe is due to white women being fed a bunch of racist nonsense from Western media. In regards to moms being “proud” of having a whiter mixed child, I’ve never really seen that happen. Most educated mothers tend not to care about the look of their children, at least in my opinion. You’re free to disagree. We both having our personal experiences, and I’m sorry you had to go through some of the worse stuff.

          • I said “most”, obviously I’ve met a few horrible ones who were racist. I just don’t think they’re the norm. I’m open to being enlightened though. Do you honestly believe that most Asian women consider Asian men beneath them?

        • You guys are literally like broken records. Even women in Asia are famous for throwing themselves at white men. What the hell is wrong with you hapas? You really think your own mother would admit she had white fever? You guys are the most delusional people to ever walk the earth.

      • “It’s strange that Asian women just never happen to fall in love with an Asian guy”

        But they do? There are literally millions of Asian Male + Asian female couples in the USA, and over a billion in the entire world. That statement you made is literally false. I get that you like to exaggerate to get your points across, but I feel like that may result in you becoming increasingly and increasingly more cynical, which may not be healthy. But then again, I can’t understand your situation exactly. Sorry if I seem judgmental, I’ve just never seen so much negativity against us half-Asians before. You should visit Hawaii sometime, there are a ton of us there.

          • I mean I moved here to the mainland for school and work, and honestly it’s not that bad. Most Asian women I’ve met aren’t self hating, although I’m sure there are some out there. Maybe I’ve just been lucky? I don’t know man. Have you tried the West Coast?

            • Lol the west coast where some 60% of Asian women out marry. I get it man, it’s offensive to you to think this might be real but whatever. Keep doing whatever you want. Some of us look Asian, so I guess consider yourself “lucky”.

              • Dude if I didn’t think this might be real, I wouldn’t be here reading what you have to write. I’m not trying to be antagonistic. I just don’t understand your insistence that “literally every” WMAW couple is terrible.

                • Well you obviously did note that A) there are Asian women who say horrible things about Asian men, and B) that WMAW is horribly, horribly unbalanced against AMWW, and that AMWW is probably non existent.

  8. It’s true the young man is right basically any white man whose not a loser in anyway will not marry outside of there race. This is not the quality 1st story I’ve heard similar

  9. Let me sincere and honest for a moment. Just a moment. I really enjoy Asian women for the same reason I appreciate women of color. They are look different, exotic. They feel and smell different. They respond differently. They are different from the white women I grew up and I appreciate that.

    It really has nothing to do with any hostility towards Asian men. I have none. Also, if she is crazy, I dump her as fast as any other women.

    Who do I marry? The woman I have the most in common, trust and love. By then, race doesn’t matter. (She wasn’t Asian. …though I miss it sometimes )

    • Jefferson Beauregard is peice of shit. hes anti gay and other stuff. I don’t care if hes has Asian granddaughter it doesn’t excuses his bullshit.

    • You needed to roll in that bad Tom Cruise movie where he kills the dude and then nails his WIFE. I like the starter kit, but you could add so much more.

  10. Man you sound bitter. And a little too concerned with “race”. I’ve heard the racists argue that any white man that marries an Asian woman has an “Asian fetish”. And any white man who marries that marries a black woman is a “nigger lover”. It’s just racism.

    Still it’s just a man marrying a woman. I’m not poor (We own a house in San Diego on a half acre in a nice neighborhood). And I married a Viet woman. The challenge with the women here was that they didn’t want to have kids, I was in my early forties, and they were looking for someone even wealthier — and more ambitious. Maybe you would argue that makes me a loser?

    There are also plenty white guy losers who marry white women.

  11. This is a very troubling blog. I am almost embarrassed to read it. It’s that painfully honest. Allow me to be painfully honest as well.

    I used to think white men had “Asian fever”. I thought it was just a sexual preference. That was before I moved to Los Angeles, CA. The #1 thing I’ve noticed about white men who date Asian women, and to a lesser extent, outside their race, in general, is this:


    On the surface they are decent or good looking men, Tall studious well mannered nice and articulate. They seem like the perfect catch. Yet white women do not want them. I do not know exactly why this is. But it is. So they tell themselves they have an __________ (insert non-white race here) preference or fetish. This is better than being alone.

    My brother is one of them. He is a tall, good looking, studious, intelligent (engineer), kind, empathetic, loving person with a great career and high income. Not even a black belt helped him show women he is “alpha”. White women rejected him. Either immediately, or after a short time. I think on the surface they see all the things women claim they want in a man: solidness, kindness, loyalty, gentleness, physical strength, intelligence, dependable, responsible, perfect husband and father material. Yet they also see: Something is missing. Nervousness. Fundamental lack of confidence. Inability to emotionally/chemically connect. Something. It’s just not there.

    Like a 1950’s housewife who married the perfect guy and regrets it. And they drop him like a hot potato every time. First conversation. 4th phone call. A few weeks. A few months.

    They drop him for lesser attractive white men who are scum bags, losers, bar rats, and druggies. One of them dumped him for a complete criminal and loser, who cheated on her, pushed out 2 kids with him, then ran into him years later. As his waitress. She made no interest in getting to know him in spite of the fact she is a single mom and he was working at NASA at the time. She did not care. If you can’t make a white women tingle, she is not interested.

    Now he is engaged to a Cuban/Hispanic/Latina women. His third engagement. He should be in love.

    Yet he talks over, over and over again, as he always has, about a party fresh blonde he dated/nailed in college for 3 months. Her “perfect pink pussy”, pretty face, perfect blonde body, etc. This is the women he truly lusts after. He wanted to marry her. She dumped him over one politically incorrect joke joke about a gay guy she knew. A couple weeks later she was on to the next dick in the college dorm ferris wheel. He never forgot her – or any of the other few white women he was lucky enough to fuck.

    White women rejected him so badly after high school college .. he learned Spanish as a way to “hide” behind the language barrier. Anyone who deals with foreigners knows the language barrier knows its’ harder to detect emotions like nervousness, confidence (or lack thereof). They can’t “detect” you.

    He uses this to has advantage. If they can’t emotionally “see him” they will stay with him and accept him. The altered/fake personality as legit. He just doesn’t want to be alone and needs sex constantly. He want’s a companion for life. A loving wife and family to accept him. But white women see this as “weakness” “inferior” etc. They are not willing to be with a man they cannot emotionally connect. Especially out of fear of being “seen”. I don’t know if any of that makes sense.

    He admits to using his race as an advantage to “have something over” on non-white women. Predicated on the underlying belief his white race is superior. This makes sense when you consider the numbers of non-white women who put a priority on white sperm/DNA. And how easy it is for a white man to “get” a hotter non-white women vs. a white women. I live in Los Angeles and have been hot on by so many Asian/Hispanic non-white women I have lost count. They are beyond easy to fuck. I choose not to because I am busy with my business and because I like white women. That’s just the way it is.

    It is extremely sad to watch my brother do this. It makes me cry inside. I blame myself. I think perhaps my verbal abuse and bullying as children (I was a selfish little prick) did this to him. I viewed him as “competition” who was there to “take” what was “mine”. I don’t know why. But I cannot change it. Then again, I see tons of white guys that did not have a verbally older brother growing up and have the same characteristics has him.

    He is now on his third engagement. He met this Cuban/Hispanic/Latino women on Tinder. After a few days of talking he fucked her on the first date with no condom and no pulling out. That is insane self destructive behavior. What is even more insane is he is marrying this girl and she cannot believe her good fortune. He owes my parents $10,000. Yet he runs out to buy her a $17,000 diamond ring. It’s a huge diamond that screams “I’m married” to other guys.

    I try to talk to him. Jason,look at her actions, , look at the facts ..look where you met her (on Tinder), look at her actions, she has done this a long time, she let you cum inside her off TInder first date …. because she was on birth control. She is a promiscious nympho or was in a relationship when she met you ! It is one or the other. Any girl who does this is a slut. There are few exceptions. Look at the obvious facts. Do not look at exceptions to the rule.

    She is over 30 years old, Never married. She is also in the medical profession and “on call” 24/7. She is primed to cheat on you. You could not possible have any worse red flags in a potential wife.

    All of this is common sense to any other guy. Yet he is so tired of being alone, so tired of being rejected by white women, tired of dry spells: he willfully denies reality putting his willing to put his finances (divorce,child support, alimony etc) , sanity (is she on call or cheating on me?) and health (STD’s) in danger.

    He wants what our parents have but cannot find it with a suitable white women so dating Hispanic/Latino/Non-white is the “second choice” and “fall back plan”. If he cannot get a white wife he. will take “second best”. That is not love. That is nothing to do with love.

    I keep trying to talk sense into him before wedding. Jason please.. think about this .. you could be making a terrible mistake. Jason objective. Think of how you met this women. She is over 30, never married and on call. She had unprotected sex with you … on the FIRST DATE .,..within hours of meeting .. after a few texts on Tinder! And let you cum in her.. That is the foundation of how you met her. Look at the foundation. I am just concerned about your well being ..

    His response? He cuts me out of his life, and calls me a racist.

    • White women are the most spoiled, over privileged, stuck up, soulless whore cunts on the face of the earth. Your brother has made the mistake of being kind to those slopped out bitches. White women love the thugs, shit bags, low life, rock and roll stink fuck assholes, because those guys treat them like shit. Worthless white cunts, love being treated like absolute shit when they’re young and attractive but they change their tune once they hit their mid thirties and hit the wall. Then they start looking for a beta buc to trap in marriage, so they can siphon resources off of his ass. White women are the scum of the earth, and part of me pines for a complete and total collapse (which white women in America and the west are responsible for, because giving women rights ensures that your civilization will fall,) because rule of law will collapse and their will be little if any consequence for getting some payback on those backstabbing cunt bitches.

  12. I was an English teacher in Korea for a few years and I, of course, knew many White guys with Asian women. The White men rarely dated the White women around there, nearly always preferring to date the Asian women around them. Many of them were divorced within a few years, or would have been divorced if they didn’t have children. I saw that many of the White men were insecure and felt that an Asian woman wouldn’t leave him. Also, there were many of the couples that fought a lot and put up with families who didn’t approve of their relationship, and still kept seeing those women anyways. They still thought they were “getting something better” even with all their relationship problems.
    I hate how so many liberals think interracial dating is “so open-minded”. It isn’t always so. If people date outside their race because someone is “exotic” or they believe in stereotypes, then they are NOT being open-minded.

    • They were not checking for you, because you’re probably a fat, slop hog, cunt, with a worn out pussy, who has an unrealistic list of requirements and demands for men to follow, while providing nothing in return. Invest in Purina stock, hoard kitty litter, cat food and catnip, because your ass is going to need once you hit 40. Hope you like the smell of catpiss ya soulless whore cunt.

  13. I so agree with this post. The writer knows what he’s talking about. Asian women really do have White Fever, not sure why because there are some attractive Asian men out there, and really, White men are not all that. Most are racist creeps and power hungry as hell.

    • It’s ironic that you think your melanin entitles you to be able to make sweeping generalized about one group of people while simultaneously implying that your view that “white men are not all that” is some sort of universal truth. Real people judge based on an individual’s characteristics and have preferences that you have no way of changing because it’s not your life.

  14. You are just insecure because Asian men have small penises(look it up), short,lack of muscle, low testosterone due to high soy diets. Women want men not like feminine men who garden and tend to goldfish. Sorry bro you can’t get no pussy. Instead of bashing others look at yourself.

      • I honestly feel sorry for you and many others on this blog. I try my best to follow Buddhist Philosophies. Any type of anger or hatred is misguided even if you feel justified in its belief. The color of our skin only matters cause we make it matter. Perception my friend.

        I guess we can all keep having offspring untill we all reach the same shade, or learn to actually learn and appreciate differences.

        There will always pain in the world, it’s how you handle it that matters.

  15. It is painfully obvious that you’re just bitter that Asian women aren’t interested in you. Take a look at yourself, honestly, and then take action to improve yourself. Bitching about made-up non-issues on the internet is never going to get you laid.

  16. Why not off yourself? Seriously. You’re either putting on an act because you can’t and will probably never get a girl or you’re being totally serious, in which case you should make your blog’s name a reality. That might actually put some weight behind your message, because right now you’re just a sad joke. I mean, you’re such a lowlife that you hate your father because of his ancestry. Off yourself, coward.

  17. What happened here? Did some kind of barn yard animal get a hold of a keyboard? Such a bad article. Even the commentary on the quotes are just false. Really sad to be honest!

    • “majority of decent white men and hapa men avoid Asian women for a reason”

      Im interested to know what that reason is?? You see it seems to me like he has a problem but YOU have a bigger one!! neither of you can accept that asian women and white men can be equal and just love each other in a happy stable relationship!!!

      You talk the SAME SHIT i see in China everyday!! More racist and xenophobic than your average white shit racist!!

    • White on the inside but Asian on the outside. Society judges you based on what you look like on the outside. This is exactly why hapas go insane. They think they are white but society treats them as Asian. Society hates Asian men.

  18. OP I feel your pain man, but I think you’re anger toward white guys is misplaced. It’s the same thing as white men getting pissed off when black guys date white women.

    Men are men. We like beautiful women. The #1 trait that makes a woman unattractive is obesity. Many western women, something like 70% in the USA alone, are overweight. Most asian women, at least from what I’ve seen, seem to have a slim figure, which men greatly prefer.

    Asian women are beautiful man. It’s not just white men that love them. I’ve been to Asia plenty of times and seen Indian men, Black men, Arab men, White men etc….all trying to date asian women. Actually in the parts of Asia I’ve been to Japanese and Korean men are at the top of the pyramid, white men are #3.

    Have you actually been to Asia? In Thailand for instance, Upper-class Thais, Koreans, or Japanese men are greatly preferred to white men.

    • @WhiteBooby, It’s usually the good looking, rich, alpha males who get white females who look like models. Those aspie, fat, bald, stinky, gingerbread white men go to Asia to find bottom of the barrel money hungry green card seeking Asian women. These Asian women are also self-hating. When theses losers get married, they produce children with severe mental disorders. Just look at Elliot Rodgers and Kelly Baltazar. Most white men are just lazy and don’t want to work hard to get decent white girls so they find white worshipping Asian women so they don’t have to work because their whiteness will get them bottom of the barrel Asian women. Most decent white women won’t tolerate these aspie, fat, bald, stinky, gingerbread white men. White men would rather have a model white female but will settle for replacement white women because like I said before, they are lazy, physically repulsive, and white women don’t want them. Having white privilege mentality is actually a double-edged sword, it is making you white fuks have a sense of entitlement and thus this is causing you to be lazy.

      • So you, as an asian guy, are trying to school white guys what white chicks actually want. That’s rich 🙂

        TBH white women come in all shapes and sizes. Model-looking ones are not all that common, regardless of illusions magazine covers try to sell you. And among that perfect-looking minority a sizeable chunk are just shallow gold diggers. Why? Because they figured they can cash-in on their looks, and because there are enough men who are content with looks-only.

        It’s this shallow view of women that causes you, and the author of this blog a considerable amount of frustration. You simply don’t pick girls based on the superficial, ever fading, attributes such as looks. Yes, good looks can help in the attraction game by getting you noticed faster, but after that initial phase, attention moves over to other qualities of a potential partner, and if it stays on “just good looks” then you have a problem. You either seek primarily good-looking companion as a substitute for something else, a trophy of sorts, or because you have a crush. And, while it’s nice to feel butterflies, crushes do have an expiry date of about 4 years, which is scientifically proven, and after that all you’re left with is a good looking dude/chick with glaring personality cons you just couldn’t notice before over all the raging hormones in your body.

        Asian women are women just like any other women. Some of them are drop-dead gorgeous, while others are average-looking, or even unattractive. It’s the same old bell curve distribution that can be found everywhere in nature. So I do take a guilty pleasure over drooling over some good looking asian chick when I see one.

        But there are serious cultural differences to be crossed in order for any western-asian relationship to work out. From what I’ve witnessed asian women tend to be submissive, which is not a quality I’m looking for in a woman. I like my women to call me out on my bullshit when I cross the line. And that is something that is more commonly (but not always!) found in white women, and it actually stems from culture and the way you’re being brought up. Asian societies appear largely patriarchal and collective based. But, travel to some of more patriarchal white countries, and you’ll find women that behave more like asian women.

        So, as a white guy, what kind of a woman would I like? The one I wouldn’t mind waking up next to when she’s all old and wrinkly. How asians fit in that equation? Poorly. Why is that? Because, as I said before, asian women tend to be submissive, and because asian people in general (since everyone appears to be generalizing here, I might as well) seem to be overly polite and emotionally distant. Nothing wrong with being polite, but when you overdo it, it feels fake and forced also makes you very hard to connect to emotionally. And emotions are something, we, western people value greatly, we often wear them fully on for everyone to see.

        There are many personal qualities you can use as a hook for white/western women, but first you need to break out of collectivism, grow a spine and become an individual. Find your strengths and build on them. And even then, do not expect every woman to throw herself at your feet, it’s just not how it works.

    • @Whitenipples, what do white losers and bottom of the barrel Asian women have in common? How do these kinds of couples communicate? There is very little to no communication with these kinds of couples, these kinds of relationships are purely physical. Why is it when you see AMAF couples together, there is laughter and communication. Why is it when you see WMAF couples you heard the sound of cricket and you see sad faces?

  19. The truth is that just like everything else in life, there is some good and some bad when it comes to all relationships. I promise you there are plenty of WMAF couples out there that are perfectly happy together and their kids are happy as well. In fact I know many.

    From everything I’ve read on this blog, what I’m taking away is that you basically got dealt a shitty hand in life; you don’t like your parents, you don’t like your asian half, and you don’t like the way you look. That sucks, but we all have problems man. You gonna spend all your life blaming all of your misfortune on your parents or take it upon yourself to try harder to be a better human? You think you’ve had a hard life just because you’re Eurasian and you don’t think white girls like you? Dude, get the fuck over yourself. There are people in this world living through horrors that you and I can’t begin to fathom. Count your blessings, stop feeling sorry for yourself, and man the fuck up.

    There’s a massive amount of darkness in you and you need to let that shit go or be forever ruled by it.

    • @Whiteanus, you’re white you have white privlege. Yous problems and many of your white brothers and sisters problems are insignificant compared to hapas or Asians. Imagine your parents (WMAF) hating Asian men or Asian culture. Imagine society hating and shitting on Asian men and women. Imagine being half white but looking 100% Asian. Would you have half white privilege? How is an Asian man or woman going to be sane in this kind of environment?

      There’s a massive amount of darkness created by society and racist WMAFs. How is someone supposed to let this go? Society keeps on remind Asians that they are worthless. Which is a lie.

    • White girls are not always all that. You just sound really shallow. Theirs Ethiopian, Dominican and of course Brazilian women who look way better. Everyone is just programmed to think that white women are at the top. And as far as most Asian women, they seem pretty plain and many get surgery to look like dolls so you can’t tell how they really looked before the surgery. Many have no figures, but I’ve met some beautiful Vietnamese mixed with French. It’s all hype to me. Most of you are a bunch of followers. As for me, a mixed middle Eastern/black mix, I’ m not attracted to white men anyways. I could get a white man if I wanted, but am not attracted to them in any way especially culturally. I’m not hating on the AWWM thing, it’s just a bit ridiculous to as to why so many Asian women kids white men’s ass so much. Very very superficial and stereotypical too. I think white men think their getting revenge on white women for going for black, Hispanics and Arab men. I think it’s sad that Asian men are left in the cold as their women throw themselves at any white man even if he is old and disgusting lol. It reminds me of black men throwing themselves at any nonblack women even if she’s fat, ugly with no shape. And no I’m not jealous of black men going for other women lol. Never been attracted to them and would love for them to go away. I’m with my Latino or Mid Eastern men!!

  20. I get the feeling that neither of you have actually been to Asia. If you had, you’d know that everything is reversed there. Asian men are #1 and get the hottest women easily over white men unless the white guy happens to be very wealthy or some kind of celeb.

    In Korea and Japan white men do not have access to the best women normally. Only the Asian men have that.

    Your problem is that you were born in the West and Asian men are undervalued sexually in the West. I get that and I think it’s ridiculous. I am white, yes, but I have always admired certain aspects of different Asian cultures, and East Asia remains my favorite part of the world. I love Asian women, and I don’t hate Asian men. Why would I? Just because I like Asian ladies, this means I should dislike Asian men, insult them, and think of them as inferior? That’s just dumb. I respect Asian men as I would respect any other human being.

    I know your experiences in life have been relatively difficult but you need to let shit go. Plenty of people had a hard time in High School. Plenty of guys of all races wanted women they couldn’t get. Plenty of guys of all races didn’t get laid in high school. Don’t be ruled by factors that are beyond your control (like being HAPA). I would never look down on a Eurasian dude because of his genetics. That’s retarded. It’s about who you are.

    You are not Elliot Rogers, anymore than I am Dylann Roof.

    There’s something else I think you need to consider. The dating scene in the West sucks for most men…..doesn’t matter the race. Women have the power now in the West. You think you’re the only guys getting rejected? Bullshit. Guys all over the USA are getting shot down for all kinds of reasons. How sad is it that American men are now paying PUA gurus $1,000’s just to learn how to game women? Fucking terrible. The problem is not that you’re HAPA. The problem is you had fucked up parents who obviously did quite a number on you, and also that you were born in the USA. The USA sucks for 90% of all men right now when it comes to getting laid. You’re not the only frustrated dudes in the USA.

    You need to get to Asia. Asian men are gods there. Especially Asian or Eurasian men raised in Western Culture, returning to the Motherland. They are genetically similar, they are assumed to have money, and they are viewed as worldly. The girls eat them up. Do you really not know this? I promise you, I have plenty of white friends who either live in Asia or travel there frequently, and they are insecure about it. White guys do well in Asia, sure, but Asian men generally get the best ladies. Last time I was in Bangkok I went out with a friend of mine who is from Singapore, now living in BKK. Yes he’s Asian, Chinese ethnicity of some sort, and going out at night in the Thai Capital with him was like being with a celebrity. If you haven’t been to Asia as an Asian man, you really don’t know. Trust me and go.

    • @WhiteLittlePrick, in Asia, the white guys get the bottom of the barrel self-hating white worshipping women. Being Asian in Asian doesn’t mean you will get hot Asian women. You also need to speak their language and understand and practice their cultural norms. Only the loser white guys in America are getting shot down by quality women. You loser white guys don’t want the fat liberal artist women.

      What do you call a white guy who is butthurt or salty?


  21. No but being Asian in Asia means you will be preferred to White Men.
    /gloves off

    If you’re a fucking reject it doesn’t matter if your skin is fucking purple, you’re not getting pussy in America or Asia. Based on the rage in this thread, I’m guessing you’re both virgins and you dream about Blonde-haired, Blue-eyed pussy all day, correct?

    Hate to break it to you. I’ve fucked tons of beautiful blonde girls. Probably about 70 different white women before the age of 25…and I have white and black friends who put that number to shame.

    Guess what? I’ve fucked at least twice many Asian girls…shit, maybe three times as many. I lost count. After about 200+ women in the Middle East, USA, Europe and Asia…I can wholeheartedly say that I prefer Asian women, and so do most of my successful, rich white friends. SO SORRY!!! Such is life. Get over it.

    In 2 months I’ll back in Asia with 6 other white guys….you don’t even wanna know how much fun we’re gonna have and how many women me and mah boys are gonna fuck. It would make your collective heads explode.

    • Maybe your penis size is why you prefer Asian women lol….Arab women are amazingly beautiful! Most asian girls you fucked had already had surgery lol

  22. I think I’m starting to really understand you guys now. I just haven’t been paying enough attention.

    1. You all hate your mothers, and they were Asian.
    2. You believe Asian women in the West reject Asian men in favor of White Men, further increasing your hatred of White Men and Asian Women.
    3. This one is big: You tell yourselves that White Men hate Asian Men just as you absolutely despise White Men (because of your daddy issues).

    NEWSFLASH: White Men don’t hate Asian men. White men generally don’t give much thought to the subject one way or the other. In fact, it’s been a bit of an awakening reading this blog, seeing how passionate you all are on the subject. Shit, I had no idea you hated us so much. THE REAL PROBLEM, unfortunately for you, is that your fathers were obviously weak, bottom-of-the-barrel White Men and you believe all White Men who like Asian ladies to be the same. Nothing could be further from the truth. You should see some of the white guys I know in Asia, fucking bodybuilders, models, etc….and they all prefer Asian girls. The scene over there is changing…not just a bunch of old fat sexpats….lotta rich young white guys who work out and have game over there ballz deep in Asian pussy.

    Anyway, it’s obvious to me now that you don’t really give a shit if Asian guys have it good in Asia like white men do in the West…..because you don’t like Asian women. Instead, you’re obsessed with something you believe you’ll never have…..

    Your Personal Holy Grail: White Girls

    …especially blondes…you have never been able attract one, it kills you, and you blame your Asian half for your inability to fuck White Women. Have you ever thought that perhaps it has nothing to do with you being Asian….that maybe your insecurities are fucking GLARING and that’s your problem??? Women can see that shit a mile away and there is no greater turn-off.

  23. Any white person that betrays their ancesty and lineage to be with a nonwhite is defiled and absolutely disgusting. I believe this is true for any white woman or white man that marries and reproduces kids outside of their race. It’s a waste of the beautiful genetics that white people are blessed with. This is coming from a mixed race, quarter black person. My Mom is fully white and Dad is mulatto. It’s never a good idea to race mix. I just don’t see why any white person with a functioning brain would do it. Who the hell wants kids that don’t look like you? I have features from both of my parents…but I look weird as FUCK.

    • Deanna, Asian women are more than happy to engage in the kinky sex that I enjoy. Unless you are willing to be tied down by me and used your body like my sex toy, I have to tap Asian ass.

  24. White people come from Albino East Indians/Pakistanis. That’s why their language is Indo European! Their not all that expect maybe the Nordic types. There’s way more beautiful no white people out there. It’s just media hype that so called white women are supposedly the best looking. Deanna, your a self hating loser, your so sad than your a quarter black! Go and kill yourself then!

  25. I see – the writer has a massive inferiority complex about white men!! Which is totally unjustified because in reality they re NO WORSE and NO BETTER than Asian men – Asian men need to protect and lash out out if they feel insecure and inferior – and THATS THE PROBLEM!!

  26. So sick of the continued fugly yellow fever. Good grief get a set of balls geeky ugly fat fart white boys. Ever noticed how it’s an ugly asian slut with an ugly fat bald stupid dog faced white old dude. 😂

  27. Hi. Haven’t checked your site in a while (needed time to process it), but I see you’re still going strong. I think in many AF/WM relationships, it is a case of high-on-the-spectrum WM (my husband included) and low-self-esteem AF (me, at the time I married my husband, to be perfectly honest). Many of the AFs could also be high on the spectrum too, so the children of these relationships grow up with parents who are BOTH mindblind to their emotional pain and needs. When I read your accounts of your mom, I see Aspergers (as well as narcissism and depression/anxiety) in her too, it just presents differently in women than it does in men, where it is more easily identifiable. Maybe it’s not entirely fair to blame race or cast all AW who marry WM as evil. Maybe the real problem is a mental impairment, that is actually very common and vastly underdiagnosed, at play. If you read the heartbreaking accounts of children who grow up with two Aspie parents who are both White or both Asians, you may be surprised by how familiar their experiences are with those of many Happas. Not all of it is race related, although I do think race/cultural dissimilarities add to identity crisis and feelings of worthlessness. It seems worth separating out the issues, rather than casting all AW who marry WM as evil.

    I don’t know your mom, obviously, but as a wife of an Asperger man, they are known to “act” normal when they are pursuing a woman, who becomes their obsessive interest during the courtship. He will make her feel special and he will be so tenacious and lacking in doubt that she will fail to see all the warning signs. She will have not idea he has Aspergers, and when he can no longer sustain the normal behavior, she may feel “duped”, confused, bitter and angry, as your mother appeared to have felt. Unlike me, your mother didn’t have the benefit of the internet, otherwise, depending on her own mental capacity, I think she would have done anything for the sake of her childrens’ well being and happiness.

    Despite how painful it is to read your website, I’m glad you are doing this. For me, it helps me see what my kids might be experiencing or feeling that I might otherwise be blind to. Thank you.

    • I’m a white man with a Asian wife most of the scrape put on here is bull.My wife is a strong woman,never thought about her being Asian she was and is a strong smart woman she doesn’t hate Asian men she is very proud of her Asian heritage and I don’t hate western women.,Asian men I’m not a looser I’m definitely not poor.I think people on here crying about afwm are just butthurt people that can’t get an asianwomen

      • This guy is the result of a skewed childhood; most people today are but learn to let go and find their own identities, he just can’t. He shares various traits with his psycho father and mother, here are some of them:

        – Both he and his father are racists, or race-obsessed. His father is the typical redneck white-supremacist and Jon/John (his real first name) was also a white-supremacist for a while. It seems that his race-obsession has now swung onto the other end of the spectrum. He now hates both white men and Asian women and is obsessed with them as a race, as is evident by his endless bitching.

        – The acidic hate that his mother showered him with is evident in all of his videos and most of his articles. It’s almost like he is unconsciously eliciting the very traits that he disdains in everything he does and he got them from his parents.

        – His father is a jobless loser who depends on him and his brother financially, Jon/John is also a jobless loser (or underpaid loser) who depends on his wife financially, while he goes on his sad hate-preaching missions.

        – Due to self-esteem issues, his father had a fetish for Asian women. Due to self-esteem issues, John married an Asian woman. The problem is, he now sees all white-asian couplings as based on self-esteem issues: the white man hating himself and feeling unworthy of the white woman and the asian woman hating herself and finding solace in the acceptance from a white man. This is obviously not the case for all such interracial couplings; he’s however too narrow-minded to see that.

        – His father is so crazy he believes in an imminent apocalypse (which is why he quit his job), John is also so crazy he believes that every hapa is about to self-destruct resulting in a “hapocalypse”, and so he preaches about it everywhere like a crazy street person.

        I’m sure there are many more similarities between John’s parents and himself that I’ve not yet pointed out, but you get the drift. Like father like son. It’s sad that he has to see the world through the lens of his pitiful upbringing, instead of letting go of all the hate and finding his own identity. Don’t let this loser get to you. Read his shit and have a laugh.

  28. Wow, Dude wins for best comment ever on this blog. Some of the similarities between you (John) and your parents may be genetic. The thing is, once you know that, you can make a conscious decision to go in the opposite direction. Instead of being the number one hapa complaint site, use your energy in a more productive (and dare I say remunerative) endeavor.

    BTW, can you comment on whether what they say about you is true? Did you marry a Chinese woman who supports you? If the name they have for you is correct, I can’t find any public evidence that you attended Dartmouth or Columbia. If what you choose to reveal about yourself to us is a lie, then what’s the point?

    Amy, your comments are interesting too. I definitely think men with a touch of aspergers are more likely to feel conformable with Asians. That’s only one subset of guys who go for Asian girls, but it is a significant one, no doubt. There’s also an important distinction between guys who go for East Asians and those who are all about South East Asians.. I would bet offspring of the latter would tend to be much less aspy, but much less intelligent as well.

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