Literally every white guy who likes Asian women has something wrong with him, including my own father

No matter how you slice it, it’s as if White men who like Asian women follow a uniform pattern. Losers? ✔ Poor? ✔ Racist? ✔ Meek?✔ Hate western women? ✔ Hate Asian men?✔ Hate feminists?✔ Hate black people?✔

Despite there being millions upon millions of half Asians with white fathers and Asian mothers these people cannot name more than a handful of successful ones – yet for some reason these guys are all experts on raising half Asian kids.

This is a recent comment on my blog.

I am a white guy currently dating a vietnamese girl.
We’re both 30.
I am a liberal, humanist atheist socialist minded kind and empathic person.
I would never hurt a fly intentionally.

My father would also “never hurt a fly intentionally” either because he has no backbone – hence Asian women. My dad actually faints at the sight of his own blood, stepped off the sidewalk when two menacing men walked down it – leaving 15 year old me  alone.

I do not date as asian woman because she is “submisdive” or “conservative”, but because european women are money hungry and i sm poor.

So a poor white man (like my father) marries an Asian woman because she’s easier – as long as you’re white and are able to provide what she wants – upgraded Asian babies. Except my mother – ten years after getting married, realized that her Asian siblings were rich, and she was married to a poor white man, and boy, that didn’t end so well… her white fantasy prince, my 6’3″ white father, was just a loser who couldn’t provide. Why do you think the WMAW divorce rate is so high and these couples look miserable in public?

Moreso i suffer from a disease that prevents me from having children.

Worst of both worlds. Not the best.

And she was the first to agree with an IVF procedure to have a child.

Lemme guess – the sperm donor will look like Dolph Lundgren.

Yes it will be only half white?
So what?

Refers to his child as “it.”

People who think he/she is “less worthy” are not people i want him/her to hang out with anyway.
Chin up!

No, Roger it is not about “race” no matter how hard you try to paint me as a racist.

Says he’s not racist.

I simply concluded that western women have behaviors that are not to my liking.

Says something racist.

They non commital, have too much random sex are dismissive, demanding and materialistic and YES i have met plenty of asian women who were like that too.

But overall the “ratio” was far better.

Says something even more racist. ✔

Religion is another factor.
I’m an atheist and she is too.

He believes atheism is a religion and that this is like meeting a girl at church. ✔

I simply don’t want to…PAY for my relationship with a woman through cut throat corporate competition for a soul crushing career.
Something which ALL western women demand of you – no discussions.

This moron has obviously never met a Chinese woman. All the Chinese women in my family are extremely career oriented while their husbands are borderline losers – like tutors, school teachers, or middle managers.

I want a simple modest happy life. Full of little pleasures of life.
We talked this over and rather than moving to Europe ( which is a materialistic dump ) i’ll move to Vietnam and live with her.

My dad is an asceticist. What a surprise! He believes working for money is a sin, that money is a tool of Jews and the devil, and that it’s noble to give away money rather than using it to help his mentally ill son. ✔

I really don’t understand the anger towards WMAW pairing.
I’m guessing it comes mostly from asian men who have this strange idea that we “steal their women” or something.

Racism against Asian men, despite half Asian sons looking totally Asian.✔

If so…then this would make you the racists by differentiating by skin color and sexist by thinking said women owe you pity sex.

I came here with the intentions of understanding and support. So the abuse you hurl at me was expected as a defensive reaction.

Starts playing the racist game – in a white man’s attempt to deflect claims of racism, despite being fundamentally racist himself. This is almost a go-to tactic now for White men involved with Asian women – just ask them what they think of black men and you’re about set.


87 thoughts on “Literally every white guy who likes Asian women has something wrong with him, including my own father

  1. You say that something is wrong if a white guy goes after asian women.what about blacks now there is a problem waiting to happen they are poor racist not only to asian men but even racist to the asian women.see I’m white and I’m married to an asian woman not a loser not poor by any means please come up with more bull.if the asian women didn’t want a white she could say no I think you are a jealous asian man that your girl left you for a white man sorry

    • You white guys really don’t do yourselves any favors. I have my fucking family pictures up that show I’m clearly half Asian yet you idiots will try to find any way to bring me down.

      • This is old I know I have friends that are produce of a white father and asian mother doctors lawyers and are just trying to bring yourself down

      • Is it just me

        or do you sound like a MASSIVE racist?

        If anyone tries to point it out, you pull the ‘WELL OBVIOUSLY I’M HALF ASIAN CARD”

    • tomusryass,

      You’re a loser, you just don’t want to admit it. Are you any of the following:

      1. Racist towards blacks and Asian men?
      2. Earn a lot less than professionals?
      3. Do white women not want you?
      4. Using your whiteness to get Asian women?
      5. Autistic like behaviors?
      6. Socially inept, can’t look at people in the eyes when they talk?
      7. Physically, do you not look appealing to the masses?
      8 Have a low social status?

      • I know this is late not racist to asian men not a loser not rejected by white didn’t chase after an asian woman don’t make less than professional people let’s just say the company my wife and I started grossed over a billion dollars this year the age difference between my wife and I is a big 6 months so yes I guess I’m older than her we have been married 44 years

      • Racism is everywhere. Ive experienced it as a white male. Your dads an asshole. You need to learn to accept it. Not blame a race because of your father. Also wouldnt you think the women in your family have bad taste in men if all their husbands are losers?

        • NO. YOU. HAVE. NOT. Don’t even try it. You need to look up the definition of “racism”. At the very root of it’s existence is a white male named Johann Friedrich Blumenbach in 1785. It is offensive to hear any white male claim somebody was racist towards them. Reverse racism DOES NOT EXIST.

          • So if you go to China and people are racist towards you they’re not actually racist because you’re white and thus they can’t be racist towards you?

      • Don’t like blacks never did grew up with them as to being poor I don’t know you idea of poor I will tell my company grosses over 1 billion dollars a year if that fits your mold for poor I guess you got me there my asian brother in law runs the Japanese part of three company wasn’t looking for an asian wife but found one been married to her 45 years

    • Well he just proved wm in wmaf couples are racist and hate / fear blacks etc lol. Lordy, these guys really fit the mold!

        • Funny, they probably think the same of Asians like you. Wimpy, shortchanged below the belt, passive, feminine males, white-worshipping and rejected by 90% + of white women. Even a poor ghetto black can get hot rich white females. As far as being useless, how many Asian A-list actors and musicians and sports heroes are there? Politicians, mayors, doctors, professors, and of course a president. Useless blacks? LOL.

          • As a traditional Asian girl who was born and raised in California, things you’ve just said disgusted me to the bottom of my stomach. The fact that you try so deeply to offend Asian men as well as using Black men to emphasize how low they are while making your race seem superior is pathetic. Many if not all of the Asian men that I know date within their own race and ethnicity and if you were to ask any White girl if any Asian man has ever approached them, chances are they would say never. Reasons of why Asian men are under represented in North America is because it’s primarily a White society. If you ever had a chance to go to Asia, to an Asian society, you will see successful politicians, mayors, doctors, professors, and presidents. In addition, my boyfriend is White but he is not a low life like you. He doesn’t have the sick mentality to feel that all Asian women worship trash like you. He also isn’t insecure to the point where he has troubles dating girls that he wants to date which results in spending time in forums to make others feel low for reassurance. Because of people like you, my boyfriend and I always get discriminated in public for no apparent reason, making us Asian girls insecure in the mix.

  2. Too cute! Making sweeping generalizations about people based off of your own limited experience. You know what that is? Racist. But you keep rolling with that since it helps you to work out your daddy issues. Just scream he “literally” has something wrong with him because he loves your mother.

    • Ah, yes. One of the amazing benefits of being with an Asian woman is that you can be openly racist, yet claim that you are big racist, because after all, you’re with a non-white woman.

  3. Hmm… you’ve honestly got me thinking… yeah… I believe you’re right when you say: “Literally every white guy who likes Asian women has something wrong with him, including my own father”.

    But this only applies to White guys in non-majority Asian societies. Marty Friedman is a cool, ex-Megadeth guitarist married to Hiyori Okuda that loves Japanese culture because he’s loved in Japan as a celebrity. So it’s a win-win relationship; she alienates the Asian male population a little, yet he raises their status because he chose an Asian lady over White because he loves the Japanese people!

    In the case of White guys in majority White societies, it does seem odd him marrying an Asian lady because she has more to gain from the arrangement. So he’s likely to be a lot older and therefore creepier, a loser at the bottom of the social hierarchy, ugly and rejected by his peer group etc.

  4. Wow, this is one of the most ignorant things I’ve ever read! 😀 It’s great to assume you know everything because of your own limited experiences. I hope you get the help you need some day.

  5. This guy is an absolute cock head, has no Idea what he is talking about and is an utter looser. I think he should shut the hell up and take a hike and keep his shit opinions to him self.

  6. Anybody participating in discussions/flamewars like this is on a dark path to nowhere. I know because I once obsessed over Asian women and nearly went insane by it. Get off the web some, go live your life. Learn new things. Forget about internet flame wars about getting women and actually go talk to women.

  7. “Literally every white guy who likes Asian women has something wrong with him”

    You realize that two people of different races can fall in love based on personality, right? Mature adults are capable of having discussions about their relationships, and can ensure that it’s not based on racism or fetishism. Just because two people fall in love and happen to be a WMAF couple does NOT mean that they are automatically terrible.

    I’m a son of a white guy and a Chinese woman just like you, and honestly this blog is really unsettling. It’s cool that you’ve found a place to vent about your personal struggles, but honestly these broad generalizations seem counterproductive. My parents are both affluent professionals in tech. Neither of them are “losers” or poor or racist or meek or hateful to any of those groups you named. Now obviously my anecdotal evidence can’t speak for every couple, but you did say “LITERALLY EVERY WHITE GUY” and I am can assure you that that’s incorrect.

    However, you might be right about something. I do look way more white than Asian, so perhaps that has influenced my point of view. Perhaps I’m just lucky. But dude, I really hope your preconceived notions of how “literally every” WMAF couple works doesn’t poison your opinion of the many innocent respectable couples out there who don’t fit the mold you’ve convinced yourself is absolutely true.

    • Why does WMAW outnumber AMWW. What would you know about being Asian? Have you ever been told you were less for being Asian? What if an Asian woman thought of Asian looking men as beneath her? What if your mother was proud that you looked white, rather than Asian?

      • “Why does WMAW outnumber AMWW?”

        Racism, most likely. Stereotypes, media, etc. I’m not denying the discrepancy, I’m saying that it’s unreasonable to assume that EVERY WMAW couple is fueled by racism. Broad generalizations tend to be counterproductive.

        “Have you ever been told you were less for being Asian?”

        No, but I grew up in a predominantly Asian community and got bullied a lot for being half white.

        “What if an Asian woman thought of Asian looking men as beneath her? What if your mother was proud that you looked white, rather than Asian?”

        Those are both two hypothetical scenarios that I agree would be terrible. But again, most Asian women do not consider Asian men to be beneath them. Asian American women live in a country where 70% of the population is white. It makes sense that 70% of the people they marry also happen to be white. Statistics, dude. I agree that it’s weird that Asian men don’t marry out as much, which I believe is due to white women being fed a bunch of racist nonsense from Western media. In regards to moms being “proud” of having a whiter mixed child, I’ve never really seen that happen. Most educated mothers tend not to care about the look of their children, at least in my opinion. You’re free to disagree. We both having our personal experiences, and I’m sorry you had to go through some of the worse stuff.

          • I said “most”, obviously I’ve met a few horrible ones who were racist. I just don’t think they’re the norm. I’m open to being enlightened though. Do you honestly believe that most Asian women consider Asian men beneath them?

        • You guys are literally like broken records. Even women in Asia are famous for throwing themselves at white men. What the hell is wrong with you hapas? You really think your own mother would admit she had white fever? You guys are the most delusional people to ever walk the earth.

      • “It’s strange that Asian women just never happen to fall in love with an Asian guy”

        But they do? There are literally millions of Asian Male + Asian female couples in the USA, and over a billion in the entire world. That statement you made is literally false. I get that you like to exaggerate to get your points across, but I feel like that may result in you becoming increasingly and increasingly more cynical, which may not be healthy. But then again, I can’t understand your situation exactly. Sorry if I seem judgmental, I’ve just never seen so much negativity against us half-Asians before. You should visit Hawaii sometime, there are a ton of us there.

          • I mean I moved here to the mainland for school and work, and honestly it’s not that bad. Most Asian women I’ve met aren’t self hating, although I’m sure there are some out there. Maybe I’ve just been lucky? I don’t know man. Have you tried the West Coast?

            • Lol the west coast where some 60% of Asian women out marry. I get it man, it’s offensive to you to think this might be real but whatever. Keep doing whatever you want. Some of us look Asian, so I guess consider yourself “lucky”.

              • Dude if I didn’t think this might be real, I wouldn’t be here reading what you have to write. I’m not trying to be antagonistic. I just don’t understand your insistence that “literally every” WMAW couple is terrible.

                • Well you obviously did note that A) there are Asian women who say horrible things about Asian men, and B) that WMAW is horribly, horribly unbalanced against AMWW, and that AMWW is probably non existent.

  8. It’s true the young man is right basically any white man whose not a loser in anyway will not marry outside of there race. This is not the quality 1st story I’ve heard similar

  9. Let me sincere and honest for a moment. Just a moment. I really enjoy Asian women for the same reason I appreciate women of color. They are look different, exotic. They feel and smell different. They respond differently. They are different from the white women I grew up and I appreciate that.

    It really has nothing to do with any hostility towards Asian men. I have none. Also, if she is crazy, I dump her as fast as any other women.

    Who do I marry? The woman I have the most in common, trust and love. By then, race doesn’t matter. (She wasn’t Asian. …though I miss it sometimes )

    • Jefferson Beauregard is peice of shit. hes anti gay and other stuff. I don’t care if hes has Asian granddaughter it doesn’t excuses his bullshit.

    • You needed to roll in that bad Tom Cruise movie where he kills the dude and then nails his WIFE. I like the starter kit, but you could add so much more.

  10. Man you sound bitter. And a little too concerned with “race”. I’ve heard the racists argue that any white man that marries an Asian woman has an “Asian fetish”. And any white man who marries that marries a black woman is a “nigger lover”. It’s just racism.

    Still it’s just a man marrying a woman. I’m not poor (We own a house in San Diego on a half acre in a nice neighborhood). And I married a Viet woman. The challenge with the women here was that they didn’t want to have kids, I was in my early forties, and they were looking for someone even wealthier — and more ambitious. Maybe you would argue that makes me a loser?

    There are also plenty white guy losers who marry white women.

  11. This is a very troubling blog. I am almost embarrassed to read it. It’s that painfully honest. Allow me to be painfully honest as well.

    I used to think white men had “Asian fever”. I thought it was just a sexual preference. That was before I moved to Los Angeles, CA. The #1 thing I’ve noticed about white men who date Asian women, and to a lesser extent, outside their race, in general, is this:


    On the surface they are decent or good looking men, Tall studious well mannered nice and articulate. They seem like the perfect catch. Yet white women do not want them. I do not know exactly why this is. But it is. So they tell themselves they have an __________ (insert non-white race here) preference or fetish. This is better than being alone.

    My brother is one of them. He is a tall, good looking, studious, intelligent (engineer), kind, empathetic, loving person with a great career and high income. Not even a black belt helped him show women he is “alpha”. White women rejected him. Either immediately, or after a short time. I think on the surface they see all the things women claim they want in a man: solidness, kindness, loyalty, gentleness, physical strength, intelligence, dependable, responsible, perfect husband and father material. Yet they also see: Something is missing. Nervousness. Fundamental lack of confidence. Inability to emotionally/chemically connect. Something. It’s just not there.

    Like a 1950’s housewife who married the perfect guy and regrets it. And they drop him like a hot potato every time. First conversation. 4th phone call. A few weeks. A few months.

    They drop him for lesser attractive white men who are scum bags, losers, bar rats, and druggies. One of them dumped him for a complete criminal and loser, who cheated on her, pushed out 2 kids with him, then ran into him years later. As his waitress. She made no interest in getting to know him in spite of the fact she is a single mom and he was working at NASA at the time. She did not care. If you can’t make a white women tingle, she is not interested.

    Now he is engaged to a Cuban/Hispanic/Latina women. His third engagement. He should be in love.

    Yet he talks over, over and over again, as he always has, about a party fresh blonde he dated/nailed in college for 3 months. Her “perfect pink pussy”, pretty face, perfect blonde body, etc. This is the women he truly lusts after. He wanted to marry her. She dumped him over one politically incorrect joke joke about a gay guy she knew. A couple weeks later she was on to the next dick in the college dorm ferris wheel. He never forgot her – or any of the other few white women he was lucky enough to fuck.

    White women rejected him so badly after high school college .. he learned Spanish as a way to “hide” behind the language barrier. Anyone who deals with foreigners knows the language barrier knows its’ harder to detect emotions like nervousness, confidence (or lack thereof). They can’t “detect” you.

    He uses this to has advantage. If they can’t emotionally “see him” they will stay with him and accept him. The altered/fake personality as legit. He just doesn’t want to be alone and needs sex constantly. He want’s a companion for life. A loving wife and family to accept him. But white women see this as “weakness” “inferior” etc. They are not willing to be with a man they cannot emotionally connect. Especially out of fear of being “seen”. I don’t know if any of that makes sense.

    He admits to using his race as an advantage to “have something over” on non-white women. Predicated on the underlying belief his white race is superior. This makes sense when you consider the numbers of non-white women who put a priority on white sperm/DNA. And how easy it is for a white man to “get” a hotter non-white women vs. a white women. I live in Los Angeles and have been hot on by so many Asian/Hispanic non-white women I have lost count. They are beyond easy to fuck. I choose not to because I am busy with my business and because I like white women. That’s just the way it is.

    It is extremely sad to watch my brother do this. It makes me cry inside. I blame myself. I think perhaps my verbal abuse and bullying as children (I was a selfish little prick) did this to him. I viewed him as “competition” who was there to “take” what was “mine”. I don’t know why. But I cannot change it. Then again, I see tons of white guys that did not have a verbally older brother growing up and have the same characteristics has him.

    He is now on his third engagement. He met this Cuban/Hispanic/Latino women on Tinder. After a few days of talking he fucked her on the first date with no condom and no pulling out. That is insane self destructive behavior. What is even more insane is he is marrying this girl and she cannot believe her good fortune. He owes my parents $10,000. Yet he runs out to buy her a $17,000 diamond ring. It’s a huge diamond that screams “I’m married” to other guys.

    I try to talk to him. Jason,look at her actions, , look at the facts ..look where you met her (on Tinder), look at her actions, she has done this a long time, she let you cum inside her off TInder first date …. because she was on birth control. She is a promiscious nympho or was in a relationship when she met you ! It is one or the other. Any girl who does this is a slut. There are few exceptions. Look at the obvious facts. Do not look at exceptions to the rule.

    She is over 30 years old, Never married. She is also in the medical profession and “on call” 24/7. She is primed to cheat on you. You could not possible have any worse red flags in a potential wife.

    All of this is common sense to any other guy. Yet he is so tired of being alone, so tired of being rejected by white women, tired of dry spells: he willfully denies reality putting his willing to put his finances (divorce,child support, alimony etc) , sanity (is she on call or cheating on me?) and health (STD’s) in danger.

    He wants what our parents have but cannot find it with a suitable white women so dating Hispanic/Latino/Non-white is the “second choice” and “fall back plan”. If he cannot get a white wife he. will take “second best”. That is not love. That is nothing to do with love.

    I keep trying to talk sense into him before wedding. Jason please.. think about this .. you could be making a terrible mistake. Jason objective. Think of how you met this women. She is over 30, never married and on call. She had unprotected sex with you … on the FIRST DATE .,..within hours of meeting .. after a few texts on Tinder! And let you cum in her.. That is the foundation of how you met her. Look at the foundation. I am just concerned about your well being ..

    His response? He cuts me out of his life, and calls me a racist.

  12. I was an English teacher in Korea for a few years and I, of course, knew many White guys with Asian women. The White men rarely dated the White women around there, nearly always preferring to date the Asian women around them. Many of them were divorced within a few years, or would have been divorced if they didn’t have children. I saw that many of the White men were insecure and felt that an Asian woman wouldn’t leave him. Also, there were many of the couples that fought a lot and put up with families who didn’t approve of their relationship, and still kept seeing those women anyways. They still thought they were “getting something better” even with all their relationship problems.
    I hate how so many liberals think interracial dating is “so open-minded”. It isn’t always so. If people date outside their race because someone is “exotic” or they believe in stereotypes, then they are NOT being open-minded.

  13. I so agree with this post. The writer knows what he’s talking about. Asian women really do have White Fever, not sure why because there are some attractive Asian men out there, and really, White men are not all that. Most are racist creeps and power hungry as hell.

    • It’s ironic that you think your melanin entitles you to be able to make sweeping generalized about one group of people while simultaneously implying that your view that “white men are not all that” is some sort of universal truth. Real people judge based on an individual’s characteristics and have preferences that you have no way of changing because it’s not your life.

  14. You are just insecure because Asian men have small penises(look it up), short,lack of muscle, low testosterone due to high soy diets. Women want men not like feminine men who garden and tend to goldfish. Sorry bro you can’t get no pussy. Instead of bashing others look at yourself.

  15. It is painfully obvious that you’re just bitter that Asian women aren’t interested in you. Take a look at yourself, honestly, and then take action to improve yourself. Bitching about made-up non-issues on the internet is never going to get you laid.

  16. Why not off yourself? Seriously. You’re either putting on an act because you can’t and will probably never get a girl or you’re being totally serious, in which case you should make your blog’s name a reality. That might actually put some weight behind your message, because right now you’re just a sad joke. I mean, you’re such a lowlife that you hate your father because of his ancestry. Off yourself, coward.

  17. What happened here? Did some kind of barn yard animal get a hold of a keyboard? Such a bad article. Even the commentary on the quotes are just false. Really sad to be honest!

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