I don’t know why it’s so offensive to suggest that biracial Asian young men will find insults against Asian men hurtful… especially when we are considered Asian men by most people. Even if these comments come from our parents this is unforgivable.
The thought that there are Asian looking sons of people like this somewhere out in the big, racist world, with Asian males at the bottom – yeah, seems scary.
Society has this… weird, love / hate relationships with Asians, which borders on both the physical and psychosexual, with Asians being seen as collective sexual objects – while large numbers of them are seen as threatening; i.e., your average Asian woman is a “proper substitute” for white women – yet many, many Asians suddenly becomes a point of contention.
Society hates Asian people – and it hates Asian men the most. So what happens when society hates you – and your own mother supports (in the most intimate way possible) a white racist?