Critiquing the usual “excuse” of Asian women who only date White men

  • No other ethnic group in America divides itself as much as Asians do
  • No other ethnic group prizes it’s half-white children as much as Asians do
  • No other ethnic group constantly talks about how beautiful their mixed race children are and how their children will all be models. I literally challenge anyone to find another ethnic group that says these kinds of things – literally promising that their children will be models. No other ethnic group (other than Hapas) are filled with average looking people trying to become “models.”
  • No other ethnic group takes as little pride in their appearance as Asians do
  • No other ethnic group tries to “blend in” and assimilate as much as Asians do

As a result – half Asian identity – is all about looking as non-Asian as possible. It’s about blending in; i.e., removing all traces of your Asian features. So Asian mothers are actually complicit in demanding that their children be white. No other group of children on the planet endure this kind of mental torture. No wonder so many half Asians go insane.

Tracy Chou on Quora had this nice little tidbit to explain about how White men are universally more appealing to Asian women than Asian men.

I did notice that not once did she even mention true love. And my mother’s marriage to my father – based on the ideal of assimilation and lust, was one that came crashing down at age 30 when she realized that he was a loser. It was never love. For some reason – for all of the excuses that Asian women throw at their choices, there never is love involved, and looking back at my family photos I noticed that love was entirely absent from my mother and fathers’ relationship; just as it seems to be absent from Amy Chua’s photos, or from Amy Tan’s – it’s was all just an elaborate plan. 

White men can’t possibly imagine that “love” itself, from a woman, can be plotted, and that plot is deeply rooted in Asian American insecurity. Their confusion comes from their own understanding of white women – who they interpret “love” for black men as being about dicks. 

Assimilation into Western society. Having grown up in a Western society, Asian-American girls sometimes identify more with “white” culture (defined by things like http://stuffwhitepeoplelike.com/) than with Asian culture — as such, referred to as “bananas”, for being yellow on the outside but white on the inside. A girl who perceives the world from a Western point of view is naturally drawn to others who she perceives to belong to Western society. Unfortunately, a whitewashed Asian guy still looks Asian.

And so my mother, feeling as if she had the opportunity to assimilate, assimilated. The problem was that my brother and I did not. She mistakenly told us to take pride in our Asian heritage – despite marrying a white male with copies of Enoch Powell in his library. Neither parent was prepared to help us deal with racism, to deal with feeling like we were less.

Asian women actually want their sons to hate their own Asian features – because to embrace them is to go against assimilation. Asian women actually teach their own children to hate themselves. Half Asian pride is a joke – if assimilation is the plan – then wouldn’t the child have the ultimate aim of looking white?

Asian women actually view half Asians sons who look Asian with the same disgust. And you wonder why half Asian men want to be white so bad – or why madness is almost inherently built into our community?