🔥Why do Asian men / White women couples seem to produce all of the successful Half Asian children? Academically cited as well.

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For an Asian guy to get a white / non-Asian woman he generally has to be mentally fit, physically sound; but for a white man to get an Asian woman he merely needs to be White. You do the math.

Asian women seem to know this – but avoid the elephant in the room.

The best thing an AMWF / AMXF / AMLF couple can do is avoid WMAF, and keep their children away from WMAF.

After all these years – the very best they can do now is steal Keanu Reeves (Asian father), spout off Nathan Adrian (5’11” Chinese mother, an extreme rarity), Olivia Munn, and some half-Filipinos (some of whom aren’t even half Asian) while coming up almost entirely short on famous half-Chinese or half-East Asians with Asian mothers.*

I will use the following paper, “Children and the Shifting Engagement with Racial/Ethnic Identity among Second- Generation Interracially Married Asian Americans,” (Kelly Chong, PhD, University of Kansas, 2013), and the paperRacial Identity, Family, and Psychological Adjustment in Asian-White Biracial Young Adults” by (Vanessa Chong, University of Windsor, 2012).

Both papers ironically were written by Asian women with white partners – as if they themselves have begun to worry about their own children; they both write specifically that the children of Asian men and White women fare better than the reverse.

The reasons are varied, but I have compiled them all with actual sources, written, ironically, by Asian women with White husbands.

Asian men and white / non-Asian women.

  • Woman likes the Asian male despite his race and all of the negative stereotypes against him. Generally his race won’t be an “issue” (meaning that many White / black women are completely unaware of what the children of WMAW couples talk about)

Former President Barack Obama was quoted in the Washington Times as saying this about his mother:

“I always felt as if being black was cool,” Mr. Obama said. “[Being black] was not something to run away from but something to embrace. Why that is, I think, is complicated. Part of it is I think that my mother thought black folks were cool, and if your mother loves you and is praising you — and says you look good, are smart — as you are, then you don’t kind of think in terms of ‘How can I avoid this?’ You feel pretty good about it.”

  • Understands the child will be perceived as Asian and nurtures it in him, unlike White fathers and Asian mothers who hope the child looks white, and truly believes the child is white despite the kid facing extreme overt bullying and harassments from Whites / non-Asians for being Asian.

Many of the Euro- ethnic wives in my study were distinctive in that most of them appeared to be more cognizant about the issue of ethnic identity with regard to their children than were the Euro-American husbands in the study and, for the most part, were enthusiastic about helping their children engage it in some form. (Chong, pp.211)

  • Doesn’t pretend the kid is going to be a male model
  • Healthier fundamental basis, no white supremacist, anti-feminist white father who idealizes Asian women; no Asian mother who says horrific things about Asian males.
  • Loves the Asian male on either his looks or his character or both; doesn’t have delusional ideas about the child being a superhuman based on his race; if anything, completely avoids or shuns the idea that Eurasians are superior due to the fact that they are half white.
  • Doesn’t talk shit about Asian women.

In contrast to the women who frequently alluded to the nerdy quali- ties of Asian males as reasons for these men’s undesirability, interracially married Asian American men in my study rarely mentioned explicitly the physical shortcomings of Asian females as reasons for not marrying or dating them. (Chong, 2013; Pg. 197-198)

  • Both parties are conventionally attractive rather than fetishes

Although Asian American women in this study were generally highly assimilated as well, I believe my observations support the findings elsewhere that the assimilation “bar” may be higher for Asian American men than it is for Asian American women who wish to cross the ethnic/racial line in terms of romance and sex. (Chong, pp. 198)

  • Relationship is not politicized against Asian males or White females, as is the case in WMAW relationships; Asian male does not talk poorly about White men or Asian women
  • Asian men and white women do not promise Eurasian superhuman myths of their children, which seems common in extremely average looking White male / Asian woman couples. Asian men and white women do not hype up or focus on the child’s Asian features – merely that is is a child whose parents were in love.
  • While Asian women essentially do not date anyone but White men – Asian men have diverse love interests and oftentimes marry women that are opposed to White supremacist ideals.
  • The White or non-Asian women who go after or accept an Asian man tend to be more socially conscious and tuned in with the child’s ethnicity and needs.

Many of the Euro- ethnic wives in my study were distinctive in that most of them appeared to be more cognizant about the issue of ethnic identity with regard to their children than were the Euro-American husbands in the study and, for the most part, were enthusiastic about helping their children engage it in some form. (Chong, 2013; pg. 211)

  • Asian men and White women do not raise their children to be “master race”, push them to be models or actors, – but moreso normal, well adjusted people who are grounded, get good jobs, good education, and develop normal social lives.
  • White women will not marry an Asian male for status, as this is impossible given the lower status of Asian men.
  • Asian men actually have to meet a threshold in order to marry a white woman – they have to be good looking, or have a good job, or a great personality. A white man literally needs none of these when marrying an Asian woman, setting a terrible example for the child: i.e., look handsome, white, or die.
  • Most white men who get with Asian women are generally meek, “weak,” anti-social, Asiaphiles, nerdy, nebbish, or “losers”
  • Relationship is not about integration and assimilation into Whiteness, but against it
  • Relationship is not tinted with anti-feminist sentiment
  • Asian guy needs to hit a certain looks standard (looks are more important to White females than they are to Asian females)
  • Asian father is traditionally masculine, has good facial ratios and fits conventional attractiveness, which western women find appealing, due to narrow eyes, tan skin, dark coloring
  • No covert incest between mother and child
  • Promotes sports and social activities
  • Confident AMWW children generally date White women / non Asian women
  • Genuine interest in the Asian culture
  • Hopes the child looks Asian / dark features
  • Both parties have friends from a wide range of races and backgrounds
  • Doesn’t prioritize race, “passing” or “white privilege”
  • Both parties are historically disenfranchised
  • A very good looking Asian guy generally will wind up with a woman of another race

 

 


 

White men and Asian women

  • Woman likes male specifically for his whiteness and status (Hence massively skewed statistics among Asian women and white men – no other minority men)
  • Hopes child looks white
  • Praises the child’s light features / Euro features
  • Strongly hypes up the child’s ethnicity as biracial, promising high status which the child fails to obtain
  • Child generally strongly disfavors anything but the white side

Another Chinese American mom, Carol, related an incident about one of her young daughters that she found similarly disturbing and unexpected: this daughter, who is more Asian looking than her sister, announced suddenly one day that she did not like Chinese people, or anyone with black hair and dark skin, and chose a book for a school project explaining that it had light-skinned people on the cover. (Chong, pp. 205)

  • White men / Asian women generally have the most really terrible things to say (Chong, 2013, pg. 197-198)  about Asian men and have a complex power dynamic (White father, Asian mother) wherein neither is willing nor able to visualize the problems of the child. After all – Asian women want white children, and don’t seem to care as to how they get them. Asian women will praise White features – ignoring the fact that many half-Asians look totally Asian, either at birth, or in adulthood. This causes the child to hate its Asian side – like Elliot Rodger, and Daniel Holtzclaw.

In contrast to the women who frequently alluded to the nerdy quali- ties of Asian males as reasons for these men’s undesirability, interracially married Asian American men in my study rarely mentioned explicitly the physical shortcomings of Asian females as reasons for not marrying or dating them. (Chong, 2013; Pg. 197-198)

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In fact, Monica recalled an incident that was highly disturbing to her. When it was pointed out to her six-year-old son explicitly for the first time that he was half-Korean, she remembered that he almost became angry and horrified, and retorted, “No I’m not!” and ran out of the room. (Chong, pp. 202).

  • If child is not white, the mother will develop resentment toward him due to loss of status (hence so many Asian women with Asian looking sons displaying anti-social or miserable behavior).
  • No other interracial pairing, including Asian men / White women pairs, are so obsessed with how their kids look.
  • Tiger Moms
  • Extraordinary high rates of mental illness among mothers
  • The psychological emasculation of the child may start at an early age, especially within white supremacist cultures that love to demean Asian men, whereby the child feels mentally destructed or encouraged to hide his Asian side (which always fails).
  • White men involved in these relationships blatantly ignore signs that they are being used for their race and privilege, such as nearly constant comments about how “handsome” their western features are (despite not actually being handsome) and then don’t realize that they are being primed to create children like us whose entire value is that we look less Asian than we would normally look.
  • Encourages child to pass as white, compliments the child’s white features
  • Discourages child’s Asian features
  • Asian women historically do not marry for love – only for social benefit – and marriage to a white man, and only a white man, is seen as being the ticket to integration and “superior” children to fulfill a stringent life plan.
  • Family home environment harshly discourages identification with Asian males, yet promises high status for being mixed with White
  • Only care about the Asian culture after freaking out abut the child’s Asian looks
  • White men and Asian women in these relationships generally hate Asian men – yet their sons look Asian to Western society. 
  • They willingly ignore long legacies of white male supremacy in the Western world and willfully ignore clear indications of narcissistic behavior, such as fetishizing the child for his white skin / big eyes.
  • The entire premise is built on the hope that the child is white passing, whereby the father’s behavior, character (racist, alcoholic, violent, broke), all are non-issues as long as he is white; should the child be Asian looking, neither parent is prepared or willing to help him.

Monica, the Korean American mentioned earlier who in the past struggled painfully with her Korean heritage and appearance, feels that now that she has biracial children, she finds reengaging with Korean culture a simple necessity….

When asked whether she would care about ethnic cultural maintenance had her kids been Euro-ethnic, she confessed that she would not, and that the reason she felt the need to reconnect to her ethnic culture was because her kids have an undeniable Asian appearance. (Chong, 2012; pg. 202)

  • More often than not – but not always – the father is bottom of the barrel mentally or genetically (the prior in my father’s case) and for whatever reason ignores the woman’s clear white worshipping because he will stoop to any level to get laid… (English teachers, weaboos, nerds). Essentially men that were never intended to reproduce manage to find a way by virtue of having white skin.
  • Essentially any white guy can get an Asian woman
  • Both parties limit themselves to white friends
  • White privilege is taught to the child, and even encouraged by both parents
  • Many very unattractive white men go for Asian women as a fallback
  • Near constant debasement of Asian maleness in the home
  • Strong animosity towards anything and everyone Asian
  • Horrible personality
  • Strong dislike of AMWW couples
  • WMAW children generally limited to dating Asian women due to low self esteem
  • White father harasses children and makes Asian jokes
  • White father is oftentimes earning much less than the mother
  • White father is oftentimes a “loser” or a racist who sees Asian women as “replacement” white women who appreciate white men – leading to the child retaining the racist mentality.
  • Higher divorce rates
  • High parental health complications.
  • Just look at these couples. The power imbalance alone (75-80% of all Hapas having White fathers is enough of an implicit message that Asian men are inferior) is enough to cast a side eye at them…. now imagine the result of being the child.

Why the HELL are the most successful Eurasians to come out of EUROPE of all places – the hotbed of extreme racism, produce uniformly successful half Asians with Asian fathers despite being outnumbered?

These are all more or less familiar names – where are the ones with white fathers?*

American television, in the last year or two, has featured six Eurasians that I’m aware of.

SIX out of SEVEN of these half-Asians on AMERICAN TELEVISION in recurring roles have white mothers.

  • Rush Hour – Jon Foo
  • Marco Polo – Remy Hii
  • Agents of Shield – Chloe Bennett
  • House of Cards – Sandrine Holt
  • Elektra – Elodie Yung
  • The Amazing Race – Zach King
  • Criminal Minds – Daniel Henney.

Here are all the aggregated links discussing why the reasons AM/WW seems to produce top feeding success stories, while WM/AW produces dregs and burnouts.


Notes:

*I will admit that half Philipinos seem successful. I don’t know why – but East Asian mothers really love to try to highjack half-Filipinos to fill out rosters; why can’t they name any half Chinese sons beyond 2 or 3?

*I am aware there are successful half Asians – by law of numbers there will be. Fifty years of WMAW pairings would logically produce a few; yet despite being vastly outnumbered the children of Asian men / White women seem to have gone above and beyond – I would imagine being a Bond girl, a massive celebrity in Switzerland of all places would count as very successful.

HALF-ASIAN MEGAPOST! After 2 Years, LFD is Now the Premier Website on Half Asian Issues! Discussing: Why are WMAW Half-Asians such failures as opposed to AMWW Half-Asians? Where are the Successful WMAW Half-Asians? E.g., Jon Foo.

Why can’t White men and Asian women who visit this website name more than a handful of successful, popular, clearly non-gay half-Asians with white fathers? That’s all I’m asking. Name some! There are 3-7 million of us worldwide, so name some.

Do it right now in the comments.

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I wouldn’t even exist if what I was saying wasn’t 100% true.

And everything else we have accomplished elsewhere (you know what I’m talking about). Eurasians have been around for 50 years and not once before 2014 did any large number of them come together and ask some simple questions:

  • “Why do most of us have white fathers?”
  • “Why are we proud to be Asian when Asian women just want white men?”
  • “What happens when WM and AW get together because Asian men are of zero value and then they have a kid who looks totally Asian?”
  • “Why are the Eurasian children of white men and Asian women so fucked up?”
  • “Why do white men / Asian women talk shit about Asian men then expect their half-Asian sons to be proud to be Asian?”
  • “If Eurasian children are so beautiful, why don’t white women want to make them?”
  • “Why do I still get treated as inferior even though I’m half-Asian?”
  • “Why do Asian women love to make me, as a half Asian, feel inferior?”
  • “Why are Asian women highly valued by white men and white society – but we, their children, are not?”

Looking forward to the next ten years…. and the question is, what are WMAW couples doing to ensure this website doesn’t go viral  (it pretty much already has) – since everything said here is true?

Now here’s some random shit that I’d like to share!



Another WMAW “handsome” Eurasian on OKCupid!

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The logic of WMAW couples: White men are more masculine – let me raise an Asian looking child under the conditions of a fetish based relationship, an environment that humiliates Asian males and treats them like asexual gaylords, and hope that he is normal.

“Son, take responsibility for your actions!” You can’t find a girlfriend or get a job because you look clearly Asian – “take responsibility for your actions!”

Read my post on gay Eurasians. 


Cathy Bao Bean, Asian American writer, wrote a book called the “Chopsticks-Fork Principle” where she refers to her son as an “experiment.”

In the author’s words, “In 1959, when I was a Junior in Teaneck High School, I learned about Hybrid Vigor in Biology class. The idea was that when two different strains of corn were crossed, the result was greater than was normal for either parent type. In 1974, when I was a new mother in the maternity ward, I wondered if the same principle couldn’t be deliberately applied to cultures – in our case, the Chinese and American.
• Physically we had the makings for such an experiment. Our newly born son was half Asian, half Caucasian.
• Intellectually, I formulated his prospects from the wealth of his dual heritage, translating his ancestors’ stories into a future neither side could have imagined, yet both had anticipated to some degree.
• Practically, I worried just how much difference it would make that he wasn’t an ear of corn.”

So like most psychopathic Asian mothers with no souls other than one hell bent on ASSIMILATION, ASSIMILATION, and WHITE MALES – she views Eurasians as a science experiment. After 40 years, what does her son look like? (Hint: he’s on the right)

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Where did the hybrid vigor go? Into the guy on the left? (I looked him up, he’s Asian father / White mother).

On /r/Hapas there’s a theory that Eurasians with white mothers are the dream Hapas of Asian moms. They essentially get nurtured in the wombs of the white mothers and grow larger, more dominant, and better looking – as opposed to the loser dweeb white guys and their Asian geishas who make miserable dweebie looking Eurasian nerds who remain unmarried well into their 40’s.



More on Successful Eurasians

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Dean Cain was Superman. SUPERMAN. The premier hero in American mass-culture. Guess what. Part Japanese, through his father. Herp da derp! WMAW are more successful!

The question originally posed on Reddit was why there were so many more successful AMWW Eurasians than WMAW Eurasians despite being outnumbered 9:1. It’s by and large true. You can just do simple searches for this.

For example: search “Japanese Brazilian model” on Google. What do you get? The results are that all but one of the people featured has a Japanese Brazilian father. Why is almost every single Japanese-Brazilian mixed model the son or daughter of a Japanese father? The answer – AMWW Hapas are more well adjusted, proud of their race, and tend to have better looking fathers.

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Aside from this Hapa with an Asian dad explaining it:

Now this is where my previous statement about being just like our parents comes in. Most White/Asian couples are between a White guy and an Asian girl, and it’s always some drop dead gorgeous Asian chick and the geekiest most homely White guy since the invention of White homely guys. An Asian chick marries a white guy because she loves him, but an Asian chick falls in love with a White guy because she knows her parents will hate him just enough to think of her as a rebel but like him enough to not disown her because they know he will be a good provider. The bottom line that no self respecting modern girl will ever admit to (which only makes this MORE TRUE) is that deep down every girl wants to be rescued and taken care of, but at the same time have that small sense of danger/rebellion/uniqueness about them.

This guy explains it, too.

This guy also explains it.

What about some real world examples?

FOR EXAMPLE! Here are the Ice Hockey Players listed under Wikipedia’s entry for Japanese-Canadians.

  1. Martin Kariya, hockey player
  2. Paul Kariya, NHL star player
  3. Steve Kariya, hockey player
  4. Jon Matsumoto, ice hockey player
  5. Raymond Sawada, hockey player
  6. Devin Setoguchi, NHL First Liner
  7. Jamie Storr, ice hockey player
  8. Vicky Sunohara, Olympic gold medalist in women’s hockey
  9. Herb Wakabayashi, ice hockey player
  10. Mel Wakabayashi, ice hockey player

Notice anything?

Oh, herp-derp, derp, WMAW Hapas are more successful than AMWW Hapas. In what world is this true? Oh, E.W., you must be cherry picking. Am I?

Is it any surprise the most popular Eurasian in China is AMWW?

Is it any surprise that an AMWW Half-Chinese Hapa Jon Foo is headlining the show “Rush Hour” on primetime television?

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Is it a surprise that two recent Bond movies featured not one, but TWO Half-Asians with Asian dads?

Berenice Marlohe.

David Batista.

B-b-b-b-b-ut Keanu Reeves is Eurasian!

Yup, he is, and his father is Eurasian with a white father and Asian mother. His mother is white. And his father is a degenerate and a drug addict. Again. Keanu Reeve’s own WMAW father is a drug addict.

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Asian Mothers Pushing their Half-Asian Children into Television, Modeling, and Child Labor; On Modern Family’s Half-Asian ‎Aubrey Anderson-Emmons

I’ve seen a couple of these… in Asia there are a ton of mixed race babies on TV and in advertisements. The buck doesn’t stop there, now they’re doing it in America too.

I’ve noticed that this is way more prevalent with white fathers / Asian mother Eurasians, not the other way around. Liu Ye, the actor, has repeatedly said that he doesn’t want to put his gorgeous son into the spotlight despite being actually attractive. 

The reason for this is that there is a market for it. Asian mothers know they can “sell” their Eurasian babies’ faces, but we have significantly less value in the west, but in the Orient we are considered “novel” and unique looking.

This is typical of WMAW narcissist helicopter parents, who use their half-Asian “superior” babies as a means to pad their egos, by forcing us into acting roles or TV roles when we’re young. You need to understand Asian culture to get why…. Asian culture is extremely status-bent. Amy Chua’s Tiger Momming is a good example.

My mother (against the will of my father) would constantly drag me to recitals, performances, trying to get me to sign up for virtually every public event where I could be “shown off.” I hated it so much, to the extent that at this point and for the last ten years I’ve been trying to relive my stolen childhood, and at that age you practically have no free will at all, and this is just a way for Asian moms to show off that “they’ve made it” with their white husbands, their upgraded babies. You have to remember that Asian women are extremely status conscious – it’s almost at a genetic level – so having a “successful” child is the only way that they can feel validated, and what better way to validate yourself than to helicopter your kid and force them to succeed to prove to the world that you’re better.

In this case, the Asian woman wants to not only prove that she’s better than other Asians (with her multiracial baby) but better than monoracial whites (after all, she “stole” a white man), but ultimately her son is going to just face the harsh reality that most of the Eurasians he knows have white fathers. So essentially your half-Asian little boy grows up to just be a gook or a “chink with a small penis”… despite having a white father.

Being “Eurasian” is code word for “my mother, like most Asian women, believed white men superior.” Taeho’s hair coloration is identical to mine when I was his age. Light brown hair, light colored eyes. As you can see in my current photos my coloration is totally dark.

Yesterday while out a woman asked me if I was Chinese but was curious why my skin was so light. Keep in mind that I looked way whiter than Taeho at his age and STILL have been shut down by Asian and white women in America.

It’s like when people say Eurasians can “model.” Uh, no we can’t. They will just find a better looking white or Asian man to model 9 out of 10 times – unless your kid looks like a mix between David Gandy and Hao Yunxiang you are not going to have a model son. If you want to be a professional model (not an Instagram “model”) you need classically handsome features. It has nothing to do with being Eurasian – yes, there are many good looking Eurasians but that means they have good looking parents and healthy developmental periods, rather than being forced into the corner to play violin.

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To date the only Eurasian model I can think of who has had a successful print and runway career was Simon Tham, whose father is Chinese.

The mystique of being good looking when you’re mixed race is largely a lie and depends wholly on your parents and even sometimes is completely random – most of us with Asian moms look like absolute dogshit, especially when we get older. Taeho has light hair color and light eyes now – but his features will become much darker as he ages – which happened to me, as you can see from my childhood photos. Meanwhile I’ve been called “gorgeous”, “stunning,” “dashing,” while my brother is in his 30’s and a virgin.

And it doesn’t matter – even if you are a 10/10 WMAW Eurasian male model, we still suffer from depression, isolation, aloofness from our parents, from growing up under a fetish couple and a white dad, and being constantly told “oh, of course it’s your father who is white.” And then we will get shot down by racist white women, and used by racist Asian women as both a weapon to prove that their white-worship is valid…

…like when I pass an Asian woman and a white man on the street and she looks me up and down and does the “wow” face, like “that’s what we can make.” It’s gotten to the point that I just tell people my dad is Chinese now to save myself the trouble, plus it’s a lot more fun.

Taeho speaks 4 languages, likely because he is being forced to, like most children of WMAW couples who want to raise their magical “Eurasian” children. My brother had a near perfect SAT, was in the top three in his very, very famous high school, played an instrument like a professional, and now is a virgin who can’t even speak in complete sentences because of his drug abuse.

I guarantee both these kids (‎Aubrey Anderson-Emmons and Taeho) will be burnt out in 10 years. Aubrey is guaranteed to have no career past her childhood.

On reddit someone said this:

‘Success’ = doing something good, from your own heart, with your own freewill. This guy is nothing more than a trained dog at a dogshow. He’s simply an accessory for their parents to show off their ‘superiority’ – another nutjob Amy Chua basically.

Speaking of which, tomorrow I’ll discuss the differences between AMWW and WMAW Eurasians in terms of behavior and looks. Spoiler: AMWW are better.

Reddit Comments, Part 5: This Blog is not about Asian Men and White women; White men and Asian women create unique psychological problems that stem from more than just being bi-cultural

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The original quote, from a white woman married to an Asian male. Most of the resulting commenters, as I myself believe, ALSO said that white women with Asian men creates healthy children, while ONLY Asian women with White men creates psychological issues. I’ve discussed the reasons before, but in short:

The white father believes he is better than Asian male, as does the Asian mother who consciously or subconsciously believes in the cultural or physical superiority of the white male, which leads to Asian male children.

The moment a hapa with a white mom commits a crime that makes national news, I’ll eat my foot.

I love my boyfriend a lot and eventually we want to have kids. Discovering this subreddit has really scared me, though. Growing up I never thought that my child may have identity issues, so I never planned a way to prevent it.

I’m afraid for my future son (if I have one). I want him to be confident. I know I can love and respect him and teach him to have pride, but when he’s exposed to the world his race might make him feel insecure. I don’t know how to approach his race. As for myself…I am not in contact with my side of the family any longer so I am mostly in an asian environment (and I’ll be honest, being at large family gatherings and being the only white person does make me feel a little out of place)… He might just be almost cut off completely with his white family. I don’t know how that will effect him, either. What if he feels a little out of place like me? Not even round his family but in school as well? It doesn’t effect me much since I am a grown woman, but on a developing child I am afraid it might have serious consequences.

As a side, I’ve heard that the mother’s DNA is the most pronounced phenotype. If my son/daughter looks mostly white, would it be even harder for them to fit in with their asian family?

I know there isn’t much discussion about half asian females, but I am equally as afraid for her for the same reasons. I am also afraid of her being fetishized by boys growing up. Everything I hear related to half-asian females is always sexually charged. I don’t want her to grow up believing she is a sex object, I want her to be like her mother and find that one special guy and be with him for the rest of her life. I don’t want her to be promiscuous, but I also don’t want her to be so ashamed of herself that she will be afraid of boys.

So if anyone wants to give me advice I’d be grateful. I’d answer any question as well, to the best of my ability. I’ve never posted on reddit before.

Other quotes from other Hapas:

[–]incelmanlate20s3 points22 hours ago

I know there isn’t much discussion about half asian females, but I am equally as afraid for her for the same reasons. I am also afraid of her being fetishized by boys growing up.

This will almost undoubtedly happen. As for the rest of it; AM/WF pairs lack the whatever it is that causes WM/AF pairing to be common and problematic.

I have noticed that every Asian women and white male coming on here basically never care about their children. Only white women seem to ask this.

Response:

[–]pahaeuro 1 point 21 hours ago*

This is a question worth asking, in further understanding the patholgoies of WMAF couples.

Why is it that White dads and Asian moms don’t care about their kids, but White moms and Asian dads do so?

Response:

[–]incelmanlate20s2 points21 hours ago

I thought it was an exaggeration until EVERY single WM or AF was batshit about who they were SLEEPING WITH. Every AM/WF focused on their children. SMH.

Response:

[–]swordlegend419 hours ago

Because most WMAF couples exists not because of love, but because of hatred, mostly because the AF in WMAF hate asian men and they date WM because of it. and the WM dating AF because they find AF to be the easy alternatives or because they have yellow fetish (which is very fucked up)

More.

[–]EurasianTiger  18 hours ago (ME)

If you raise your kids with self esteem they’ll be fine.

UNFORTUNATELY FOR US, most Asian women with white men savagely hate anything Asian, as do the white fathers who are for the most part closet paleoconsevative racists, so Eurasian boys from WM/AF are usually severely damaged by the time they reach adulthood.

Meanwhile Eurasians with white moms are usually well adjusted and normal people. I can only imagine what it would be like to have had a mom who didn’t value me more because I was less Asian looking, constantly fed me lies about Asian men, paraded me around like a dog, and tiger mommed me to hell.

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[–]pahaeuro 3 points 21 hours ago

I think you are the 1st white woman to post here ever. I’ve been waiting for a white woman to post, since in a way a white woman would be a neutral arbitrator of these issues, since she doesn’t have as much personally at stake in it as white men and Asian women do.

Although in your case, you are a white woman dating an Asian man, which takes bravery and courage in our racist society.

People call us racist and hypocritical for being pro-AMWF and anti-WMAF. But no one on r/Hapas is for segregation or racial purity. If people would actually read our posts, you would see that our problems come from the WMAF relationship being based on white supremacy and oppressing half colored kids. If AMWF is not based on white supremacy it wont have the same horrible consequences. 

The facts speak for themselves in that it is impossible to name a single WMAF son who amounted to anything, while there are many, many, famous, successful AMWF sons, despite the small number of AMWF couples.

The excuses people give when they can’t name a single AW/WM successful son

http://www.reddit.com/r/hapas/comments/33o2ct/name_just_one_eurasian_son_of_a_white_mom_and/

A Hapa son explains the differences between AW/WM and WW/AM children

In a way AMWF couples like yourselves, give hope to WMAF sons just by existing, since you prove to us that being an Asian male is not the end of the world.

This Eurasian blogger suggests that the very fact that more AMWF moms are concerned about their kids futures, than WMAF moms, is itself proof that AMWF moms are more capable of empathy and love for their children. Your tone is very different than the countless WMAF couples who post here. They taunt us and demand we put their happiness above our own. You actually care about your Eurasian children for their own sake, and that is admirable.

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[–]pahaeuro 4 points 21 hours ago*

If you’ve read through this subreddit, then you should see that the problem is not that theres anything wrong with mixing white-asian genes, but the wrong type of white men get with Asian women.

I think its the opposite of AMWF. The right type of white women are willing to see through the stereotypes. Thats why you care about your son’s identity and your daughter’s dignity. None of the WMAF couples care about that. In a disgusting way the WMAF couples even objectified their own daughter. Parenting like that, is what gives wmaf Eurasian daughters their complexes, not anything in their genes.

you, u/Prende and /u/Wanlong both care about your kids. You’d be hard pressed to find a single White guy on r/Hapaswho cares in the same way, and we get A LOT of white guys posting here. They just try to bully us into accepting them. Thats the difference. You are not them, and you shouldn’t think you have anything to do with them.

If there were more white women like you, it would go a long way towards solving the r/Hapas problem, since White-Asian relations would be on a more even basis, and not get so caught up in screwed up notions of masculinity, feminity and race.

I posit that mixed race relationships are not bad.

In fact, mixed race relationships are a universal positive as they promote objectivity in the children; i.e., a child of two races would be able to circumvent usually common conflicts between races because of his ability to get away from nepotistic ideals (“I’m Arab, so what is good for me is what is right, and what is good for Jews, is against me”); and a mixed race person would be able to view cultural conflicts with the mindset of both races, as he or she is both races.

In fact, President Obama himself is mixed race and it was his universality (especially with his mother remarrying to an Indonesian man), making him and his family the literal definition of anti-racism, that made him able to win the presidency.

However, I posit that Asian women and White men is the most poisonous of all of these relationships that creates unique psychological (notice I did not say cultural) issues in the Eurasian male child (and sometimes in the female). 

These issues are the result of the Asian woman deferring to the white maleness, the father feeling naturally entitled to the Asian female (out of longstanding preconceived notions of Asian male inferiority), resulting in an ASIAN MALE CHILD.

Asian Men and White Women Produce Healthier Children

The Asian Woman with a White Man Scenario:

  • Mother: Only white men are good enough for me; I demand that the father be tall***, white, blonde / red haired, blue or green eyed, and one hundred percent white (Jewish, Italian, and other Caucasian types are okay, as long as the individual is white in appearance and benefits from white privilege). Mother pursues man because of his race. If this were not true, then Asian women would be equal opportunists – which they are not.
  • Father: Either completely clueless because of white privilege, or is fully aware that he holds sway and power over access to Asian vagina by default. He therefore harbors underlying views of superiority over the Asian woman; these guys are in the majority, and can often be found in Asian countries constantly complaining about Asian culture, trying to deflect criticism off of himself for dating Asian women by telling Asian men to “improve” themselves, as if he is an expert on the sociology of Asian men. Believes his son to be “an improvement.”
  • Child: Recognizes that his mother selected and gave birth to him because of his father’s race, a race that the child can never be; Elliot Rodger clearly recognized this but never admitted it, instead internalizing the “I am better because I am half white.” mentality.

The Asian Man with a White Woman Scenario:

  • Mother: Fully aware of the negative stereotypes of Asian men and the hostility and mockery she receives at the hands of white men when seen with an Asian man. Pursues / agrees to her husband in spite of his race. Recognizes the statistically higher earning power / reliability of Asian males and chooses to mate despite Asian male appearance.
  • Father: Usually harbors little or no sense of superiority over White men, as society and Asian women have sought to debilitate his morale and self-esteem for decades. Either falls in love with the woman with earnest surprise about why she would be interested in him, and does not view his son as “better” in any way, shape or form.
  • Child: Usually well adjusted, with a healthy sense of racial identity and acceptance from the form of a liberal white woman, who have spearheaded the leftist, multicultural movement and fought against white patriarchy for decades. 

***The emphasis on height indicates an extremely level of racial preference; meaning that not only is the choice a eugenic choice, but dependent on physicality. But, mom, I thought my goal in life was supposed to be to be a good man; how many good Asian men did you shoot down? LIAR!